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Thewitchonthemoon · 18/10/2021 10:53

If someone you had been having relations with for around 6 weeks said, ‘Let’s be single together’, what would you take from it?

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HollowTalk · 18/10/2021 11:43

Going back to your question, I've no idea what "let's be single together" could mean - it doesn't make sense to me. I think you need to ask him to explain himself.

I don't think I would have a fling or a FWB with one of my ex's friends - and I would do that to a friend, either. A proper relationship is a bit different, but I wouldn't do anything casual.

AnnaSW1 · 18/10/2021 12:05

He wants to have sex with you but he's not that in to you

girlmom21 · 18/10/2021 12:08

He's not prepared to go to war with your ex over it. He wants to carry on as you were but with no view to commit.

NotSoNewAndShiny · 18/10/2021 12:20

@Thewitchonthemoon From your update, I'd think he really likes you and wants to be in a relationship. He stood up to your ex and basically declared his "intention" when he (your ex) confronted him.

So I think "let's be single together" means 'since we aren't allowed (by your ex) to be in a relationship, let's claim to be officially single but still be together'. Iyswim.

Still, I think you should ask him to clarify.

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