Family member, Sonia, has recently been treated for cancer and got the all clear, which is great! The treatment has left her with pain when walking more than a few yards, breathlessness and tiredness.
When she was going through gruelling treatment, her H did nothing for her. He didn't even make her tea, tidy up, nothing. He works full time but is that the point?
I spent time with them lately and despite Sonia struggling to walk and in lots of pain, he didn't once help her along by linking her or letting her bear her weight on him or even going to get the car which was parked a considerable distance away. After a long day of walking, he asked Sonia to make him a drink. She had been in pain all day, for fucks sake and she had just sat down! I told him to make his own and he had a face on with me. He doesn't seem to like me anyway because I confront his behaviour.
Sonia thinks it's all just his way but I think he's a fucking arsehole and she deserves a million times better. AIBU?