Other half...

[Jenula]

I don't know how to feel. My OH doesn't seem interested in me or our son anymore.
He never wants to feed him or even change him. If I'm busy he will do it but only if I ask him to.
Currently I sleep downstairs with baby so he can get as much sleep as he works all week. He rarely does the night shift even if he doesn't have work. For example I've been up since 6am and he is still upstairs. He is awake but doesn't seem to want to come down to interact with us.
I said this to him and he said I was being silly.

Am I tho?

I feel like I could be a single parent.

I manage to keep my house tidy and clean, do all the washing, cook us dinner and even make OH's lunch for him every day! So I Sometimes wonder what his purpose is?

Sorry if that's a lot.... Just having mixed emotions about it all

Yes it seems he isn't bothered with either of you.

He see's it as your job to care for the baby. You are basically a single parent.

Caring is an action. He isn't doing that,therefore he doesn't care enough.

If you dont think it bad enough to leave yet, please stop taking care of him, stop tidying his things stop making his food.

Please stop.

He isnt caring for you and the baby. So please just care for the baby and yourself.

I said this to him and he said I was being silly

That in itself is a huge red flag. He's dismissing your feelings in the 'partnership' This man does not care to make you happy.