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To consume shop-bought food and drink in a hotel?

144 replies

Alcemeg · 12/10/2021 19:06

Four nights at a nice French hotel where we feel a bit out of place (other guests a bit snooty). Dinner in the restaurant here is a very hushed and formal affair -- not inclined to repeat the experience. It's also very rich food, served slowly, so you go to bed feeling as though you've swallowed a tub of cement. It's hard to sleep after that little lot.

Our room has a little terrace overlooking the hills. Our preference is to grab our own food and drink from a supermarket when out exploring during the day and stash it in an ice box so we can do our own thing when we get back to our room. But is this a bad thing? Is it rude to the hosts?

YANBU = Go ahead, relax and enjoy your terrace views while scoffing a big fat sarnie washed down with local wine

YABU = Only eat and drink your own stuff secretly in your room with the curtains drawn, or in a layby on the way back from the shops

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Longdistance · 12/10/2021 19:49

I’m ex BA cabin crew. We did this regularly at hotels. We used to called it Delsey Dining. Get a nice bottle and enjoy yourselves Wine

HalfShrunkMoreToGo · 12/10/2021 19:49

We did a very luxurious and expensive stay in a fancy hotel a few years ago and we are just not fancy people.

The servers had these little silver dustpans and brushes to sweep any minute crumb from the bread bowl between courses.

We did the same as you and got food from the supermarket and ate it in our rooms. This decision was made after trying the dining room where we felt extraordinarily uncomfortable and out of place, and then trying the room service option the next day where it was basically exactly the same, including the little dustpan and brush but at a table in our room with the waiter stood in the corner staring at us Shock

Motorina · 12/10/2021 19:50

I'm single. I love to travel (pre-covid) and used to travel a fair bit for work (again...). I hate eating in restaurants on my own.

I have eaten a lot of takeaways and deli food in a lot of hotel rooms. If the terrace is effectively part of your room it's totally fine. Enjoy!

(Don't, however, eat indonesian noodles on a white coverlet. Ask me how I know...)

Newnormal99 · 12/10/2021 19:50

Slight different class of hotel but I stayed in premier inn last summer and wasn't the only person waiting outside for their delivery moped!

Alcemeg · 12/10/2021 19:51

Thank you @Threewheeler1! I am about to start relaxing and enjoying it properly instead of being a bit scared of the place!

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Lovemusic33 · 12/10/2021 19:52

We stay in hotels and rarely use the restaurant. We usually eat out at lunch time (when we are out exploring) and then buy food from a supermarket for our evening meal.

JesusIsAnyNameFree · 12/10/2021 19:52

Last time I stayed in a hotel I had a cheesy, bacony amazing burger from outside the hotel whilst sat on the bed. Was fucking fabulous.

TatianaBis · 12/10/2021 19:52

[quote Alcemeg]@TatianaBis
A lighter meal option would be great, but the hotel sacrifices its geese in October and the menu is 100% foie gras, confit d'oie, or something dripping in goose fat![/quote]
Well roast goose with prunes and Armagnac is quite nice. 😁

Alcemeg · 12/10/2021 19:53

@HalfShrunkMoreToGo oh I would have died!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anonymous48 · 12/10/2021 19:54

[quote Alcemeg]@TatianaBis
A lighter meal option would be great, but the hotel sacrifices its geese in October and the menu is 100% foie gras, confit d'oie, or something dripping in goose fat![/quote]
There's absolutely no reason for you to feel like you should eat in the hotel restaurant if it doesn't appeal to you! And no reason to feel you have to justify not doing so. Hotel restaurants, in fact, are notorious for being over priced for the quality. You would probably be much better eating at a non hotel restaurant - or eating in your room.

Alcemeg · 12/10/2021 19:55

@TatianaBis
the food is certainly delicious, but you couldn't call it "a light menu" 😋 and the whole restaurant performance is terrifying.

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Classica · 12/10/2021 19:55

The problem with staying in a small hotel run by the owners! Hushed and formal is never good, no matter how delicious the food. And I love rich food. Enjoy your tea de terrace demain.

Anonymous48 · 12/10/2021 19:55

@HalfShrunkMoreToGo

We did a very luxurious and expensive stay in a fancy hotel a few years ago and we are just not fancy people.

The servers had these little silver dustpans and brushes to sweep any minute crumb from the bread bowl between courses.

We did the same as you and got food from the supermarket and ate it in our rooms. This decision was made after trying the dining room where we felt extraordinarily uncomfortable and out of place, and then trying the room service option the next day where it was basically exactly the same, including the little dustpan and brush but at a table in our room with the waiter stood in the corner staring at us Shock

You got room service and the waiter stood there while you ate it? That's terrible! Are you sure he wasn't just waiting for a tip before leaving?
SpeakingFranglais · 12/10/2021 19:56

Have taken my own food into hotel rooms for years, fish and chips, pizza, chicken fried rice!

As well as bottles of wine and count less snacks.

It’s fine.

Alcemeg · 12/10/2021 19:56

Thank you all so much for the reassurance! I almost didn't dare post this thread but am glad I asked the question and am now really looking forward to tomorrow night!!!!!!

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GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 12/10/2021 19:57

Why do you need permission from strangers about where to purchase your food?

Tal45 · 12/10/2021 19:57

Yes, yes, yes to the balcony. Unless they specify no food allowed in rooms then do as you please. We've had loads of balcony picnics - that's what the balcony is for IMO.

Classica · 12/10/2021 19:57

the room service option the next day where it was basically exactly the same, including the little dustpan and brush but at a table in our room with the waiter stood in the corner staring at us

With him just standing in the corner of your hotel room, staring at you like Pennywise, as you ate your dinner? Shock Grin

The absolute horror.

BrisbaneandGone · 12/10/2021 20:00

@GreenFingersWouldBeHandy

Why do you need permission from strangers about where to purchase your food?
But that's not what happened is it? She was asking, as she doesn't stay in hotels much, whether it was ok to eat shop bought food in the hotel
Alcemeg · 12/10/2021 20:00

@GreenFingersWouldBeHandy

Why do you need permission from strangers about where to purchase your food?
We're used to self-catering apartments. I wasn't sure if different rules applied to hotels, especially hotels with a restaurant, especially hotels with a posh restaurant and snobby guests!

I mean where do you draw the line? Presumably it would be wrong to buy a microwave and have an absolute feast!

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Tilltheend99 · 12/10/2021 20:04

Absolutely go ahead and do this. DH and I do this the (I think it’s three now) times we have been to France. Love looking at all the mysterious types of food in the supermarket and trying out all the snacks or fresh bread and dips.

wheresmyshoe · 12/10/2021 20:04

I absolutely love a bed picnic, I'm far too tired to eat out every single night when I'm working away.
I put a bath towel down to catch crumbs, don't have anything pongy and bag up all rubbish neatly.
Fill the sink with a bag of ice and have champagne 😁
I've never had any comments or complaints. Bliss.

DDindistress · 12/10/2021 20:04

We stay in a lot of hotels varying from premier inn to 5 stars, we always take our own booze sometimes food but you will probably find if you go down to the bar they are more than happy to give you glasses and an ice bucket! Do whatever makes you feel comfortable and enjoy your holiday.

TacoTues · 12/10/2021 20:06

Do the fuck you want. It's your holiday.

We've been known to lay on 5* Hotel beds watching films and eating McDonald's at the end of a busy day!

That's why we fancied. We were on holiday. That's exactly what we did.

whynotwhatknot · 12/10/2021 20:13

It might feel more awkward if the owners are there all the time but unless they insist no food in the room then you can do as you like

in america if u dont take food up in doggy bags they think youre weird