I used to sleep with this man when I was 19 - 10 years ago. It was very casual and mainly when we were drunk. He got married about 8 years ago and he had messaged me a couple of nights before his wedding asking to meet me for 'old times sake'. I said no. Haven't heard from him since.
Until Wednesday, he tried to call me through messenger at 12 am, I obviously didn't answer. Thought it might have been a mistake so thought nothing else of it.
However tonight I have just received a message from him with his mobile number followed by 'text my phone when you get this'
I replied, 'why?'
He then responded, 'it's ok, you're out of my league now anyway so never mind but please don't mention that I've mailed you, please'
I just said, 'yeah you have a wife, you probably shouldn't be doing that'.
Now I feel a bit silly that I replied that as what if he wasn't looking for anything like that and I've jumped to conclusions? However I think it's fairly obvious this guy was looking for more than a friendly catch up?
AIBU in thinking this?