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Your birthday, your shout? AIBU?

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EdenFlower · 11/10/2021 16:12

If you invite a friend out for a drink for your birthday do you pay, expect them to pay or split it?

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Kite22 · 11/10/2021 17:18

Just rounds as usual.
Same with a meal - we'd either pay for our own or just split the bill (depending on the group).

EdenFlower · 11/10/2021 17:19

Will definitely be splitting it 50/50 from now on!

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TheDuchessOfBeddington · 11/10/2021 17:23

If it’s my birthday at my house I pay for everything but guests normally bring a bottle. If at a restaurant we would split but I would buy some nice wine or champagne for the group as a thank you for celebrating with me. Your friend is a bit tight I think.

CoRhona · 11/10/2021 17:48

It's my birthday soon. You're all invited and it's definitely your round Grin

Neonplant · 11/10/2021 18:01

Split it. Unless it's explicitly said it's a treat by one person.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/10/2021 18:51

When it was my 40th I paid for a buffet in the pub but people bought their own drinks.

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