DJ has a history of taking the piss. He works full time for himself, long hours. I help him in the afternoons delivering for him.
I didn’t do a paid job whilst our dd was growing up but I did help him out with accounts, deliveries and do all the childcare cooking, cleaning, shopping ect…
I have recently got a full time job working around dd school hours. It’s hard and I’m on My feet all day and it is very physical. (6 hours) . I got the job because he was forever telling me I am lazy and to nothing.
I must admit the job is hard work and I am dead on my feet when I finish.
He has now started ringing me when I finish work and giving me deliveries from his job to do in the hour before I pick up dd. If I refuse he goes on about how he is up so much earlier than me ect…. I had a row with him tonight saying that when I’m finished work I am tired and don’t want to do his job as well as my own. He said I’m selfish and that he is tired too as he is up earlier than me. He’s caused bad feeling with his mood all night and I’m worn out with it all. Am I being unreasonable to say no do it yourself as I’m working now too. Also I’m still doing all the other stuff on top… cooking ext… ?