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To just ask him how he feels?

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Chippywippy · 08/10/2021 15:18

So me and boyfriend first started dating two and a half years ago. I was moving for a job and we both just wanted something casual. We kept in touch here and there, had each other on social media and I noticed he had a girlfriend. Their relationship seemed happy he seemed head over heels and like a completely different guy. All lovely then they broke up.

I moved back home and we started talking again, we slowly came around to the idea of us being together. We do get on really well and it’s been about 6 months, he’s very affectionate but I just feel like something is missing about the way he feels about me. He doesn’t really TELL me, he’s said stuff like I make his day’s special but nothing about me. He said I love you after and argument and now if I said I love you. He says love you. It sounds petty but I have nothing else to go on so what I do get I over analyse. The thing is I saw how he was with this past girl, he even wrote her poems ffs, so I can’t help comparing and it just leaves me feeling so awful. Should I just ask him how he actually feels or should I leave because I would know

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Cocomarine · 08/10/2021 15:27

I wouldn’t date anyone who had to slowly come round to being with me. That goes for both of you. If you’re not ready to crawl over hot coals and thanking your lucky stars for the chance to do so at the beginning… then what’s the point?

Chippywippy · 08/10/2021 15:29

Maybe not come round to the idea but getting into a relationship seemed scary. It happened naturally and for me I always want to spend time with him, I always think about him. It’s not so much coming round to him more so we’re really doing this

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