@LadyWithLapdog
You can’t even move neighbourhood easily, let alone country. You can criticise or moan or even hate where you live, but you’ve got your job nearby and your kids go to school there and you need £££ more to move somewhere better, and that place has its own drawbacks. So to say you can just change countries and go away if you don’t like it is so naive. Plus, brexit happened and that curtailed freedom of movement. Plus, brexit happened, Britons really hated others coming over here etc.
Again, you clearly didn't read or understand what I posted.
Where did I say its easy to move? Though the above poster mentioned a relative who wasn't born here, they would find it easier to move. Not easy, but easier. Especially, since they feel their birth country was far better.
And if the person you know well gives those reasons, that's their reasons. Where did I say anyone should continue to tell them they should move? Or tell them to move at all. There's a difference between a query and demanding someone does something.
I don't live in the country I was born in. Don't live near my family now either. I could fly to another country quicker than drive to see my family. People move back to their country of birth all the time, taking their kids. People move to countries they aren't from all the time. People remove kids from schools. People move away from family and friends. Why are you pretending its impossible? Its difficult for many reasons. But not impossible.
And people move neighbourhoods very often.
If you think there's no difference between quering why someone (who you know very well) doesn't leave when they are truly miserable and saying 'get back to your country' when someone slightly criticises the country, there's not much else I can say.
Like I said, immediate defensiveness. Which usually leads people to misconstrue and twist people's opinions, to justify you poor behaviour.
Its the same train of thought the people who immediately snap 'go back to your own country' have.
You arent that different.