To not invite ex to parents evening...

[mneters]

Since the last two years I have and he hasn't bothered (last year I got abuse to why he would even want to be in the same room as me etc swearing and name calling) as he was with the other woman and wasn't aloud to text me let alone be in the same room as me. The last month or so he's tried to be overly nice as he's now single again and trying to get things back to being friends but after how he's been I am just civil and I don't want to make small talk tbh or speak outside of the kids. Wibu to not bother inviting or should I just grin and bare it for the kids sake? He's not involved at school at all he's done 3 school runs in 2 years when I had to go away for a funeral.

Based on his history I wouldn’t. If he is a decent person he would recognise that his actions have consequences and not hold it against you. HE would also be in touch with the school himself so know when parent evening was and he making his own arrangements

no based on what you have said. He dosent just get to turn up when its noted!

My ex is exactly like yours. Only being nice/helpful when he is not in a relationship. Each time a new girl comes into his life, he put himself first. However, if I was you I will ask him if he could attend the parent/teacher, up to him to decide if he wants to attend or not.

No, don't.

Keep contact to a bare minimum.

Do not get sucked in to his drama again.