To hate when people do this?

[MiaMarshmallows]

Saying everything is fine when it is clearly not? Seem moody and annoyed with me.
Know they are going through a lot at the moment but aren't we all? I can't fix something which I do not know about.

Maybe they don’t want you to fix things, and you keep asking which is making them moody and annoyed with you?

Why would you assume you can "fix" things?

Depends what and who you’re referring to. Maybe this person doesn’t want to offload right now, perhaps it’s very personal, maybe they’re embarrassed. I say ‘fine’ sometimes when I really mean ‘not fine but don’t want to discuss thanks’.

They might be a huffy, passive aggressive pain in the arse as well of course.

Maybe you’re just getting on their nerves…justifiably or not.

I have a feeling they are annoyed with me yet they will not come out and tell me what the issue is.

With people like this, I take them at their word and don’t ask them more than once. If they want to be sulky and not tell me that I’ve annoyed them, I up my sunny mood around them and get on with my day.

Maybe they want you to stop asking and leave them alone?

Not all problems/moods require someone to step in and "fix them".

Leave them to it. Create some space and do something you enjoy.

@icedcoffees

Maybe they want you to stop asking and leave them alone?

Not all problems/moods require someone to step in and "fix them".

But then don’t have a bad attitude which warrants a comment in the first place. I’m occasionally not really ok, but don’t want to be asked about it. In which case I do a good impression of being fine. Or if I couldn’t hide it I’d say something along the lines of ‘ah I’m not great but it’s not you, I just need to get my head around it’.

I don’t go around in such a mood that people ask if I’m ok but then say I’m fine when asked.

Maybe they are tired of how you treat them and know that saying something won't make a jot of difference?

@wigglerose

Leave them to it. Create some space and do something you enjoy.

Exactly.

Maybe they're an introvert who wants you to get out of their face?

I don’t go around in such a mood that people ask if I’m ok but then say I’m fine when asked.

Sometimes people think I'm in a mood because I'm tired, or don't give them the answers they want to hear, lol.

If someone says they're fine, just accept it and leave them be.

Yeah save yourself the effort and take the comment at face value.

Why drag yourself down

What's the context? I'd react differently to a colleague at work than I would to DP.