To think this guy is creepy

[Benjaminbutton12]

A few weeks ago my partner and I met a man at a pub. He seemed articulate and well-to-do, I only chatted to him for about 30 minutes but my partner stayed for a few drinks with him.

That was the only time we’ve met him, neither of us have seen him since but he messages my partner constantly on social media. As in daily, he has other friends he speaks to most days but it seems odd given he’s only met this man once.
He shows me some of the messages and the guy makes references to masturbation and said he was having a threesome with somebody.
He just seems very odd and persistent. I told my partner that I don’t want him knowing where we live, I just think something is off about him, the constant messaging is odd, my partner is polite but tries not to encourage it. He’s around 30 I reckon. Aibu? He may just be lonely, who knows.

All the awful stories in the news recently have probably make me extra paranoid I admit.

Total creep - block the number

He doesn’t have any of my details but just has my partner on social media, it’s up to him if he talks to him of course I just really don’t want him knowing where we live. He knows where my partner works sadly.

Just block him, he's probably looking for a threesome

Go one better in the creepy stakes and ask him if he's heard of Jesus, then start sending him religious memes 😄

Definitely strange. Why can't your partner just block him?

That's definitely weird behaviour for someone you've only met once.

Don’t understand why your partner didn’t block him at the first hint of weird.

He wants to have a threesome with you both.
He's testing the waters with your husband to see how he reacts to these topics.

Why did your husband give him his contact details?

Your partner is either bisexual, looking for a threesome or both. I wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve already started something and your partner seems to be now testing the waters with you.

Nobody would keep responding to a stranger in this scenario unless it was appealing in some way.

Grim.

Urgh. Weird. Why is your partner engaging?

He's obviously looking for a threesome with both

...of you

Oh dear, why are there so many creeps about these days.. The planet is falling to pieces, and lots of it's male inhabitants are too,

He may just be lonely

So what? He’s still a creep, there’s no need for him to talk about wanking and threesomes with someone he’s met once!

Women need to stop finding excuses for bad male behaviour.

@Summerdayshaze

Your partner is either bisexual, looking for a threesome or both. I wouldn’t be surprised if they’ve already started something and your partner seems to be now testing the waters with you.

Nobody would keep responding to a stranger in this scenario unless it was appealing in some way.

Grim.

I sort of agree. It seems odd that your partner hasn't blocked him already.

Yes the guy is definitely creepy -- and so is your partner for not blocking him immediately.

“l Go one better in the creepy stakes and ask him if he's heard of Jesus, then start sending him religious memes 😄”

😂 Brilliant suggestion!!

Your fella was nice to the pub weirdo is all, when not drinking alone he's having Threesomes with pornstars on yachts and stopping armed robbers with ninja skills then it's time for lunch before he heads out to play in goal for Man U as a favour.
Oh and in between all that he texts men he doesn't know very well to chat about wanking until the men block him and avoid the pub.

Every pubs got one.

Yeah the guy is after a threesome and your DP is either incredibly wet or he's considering it.

I think he and your partner have a connection and your DP is testing the waters with you or they have an attraction. Is he bi? Classic case of initiating a threesome otherwise.