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Words that other adults use that irritate you?

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Mangosmoothiesprinkles · 04/10/2021 19:54

Some examples that seem to irritate me (yes I know it’s totally irrational!).

First is someone calling the tumble dryer ‘the tumblee’ (written phonetically to explain how they pronounce it). Second is ‘homee’ rather than home. I know there is no reason for these to give me the rage but they do.

AIBU to feel irrationally annoyed? What words that other adults use give you the rage?

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Hummingbirdcake · 04/10/2021 20:48

DilemmaDelilah

I HATE invite instead of invitation. It's NOT an invite. It has never been an invite. It will never be an invite. The word is INVITATION!!!!!

This.

Also supper, nibbles, lippy.

LumpyandBumps · 04/10/2021 20:50

I don’t mind the word ‘so’ at all, but I hate it at the start of every sentence.

Also dislike ‘can I get’

AngelinaFibres · 04/10/2021 20:51

Thanks buddy ....when used by a 17 year old young man in any cafe/ pub etc speaking to my 59 year old husband. I can feel my husband wincing every time

Crabbyboot · 04/10/2021 20:51

Gives me the rage

deedeemegadoodoo · 04/10/2021 20:51

‘Dreamy’ when talking about a nice dress or interiors.
Hubster / hubby.

Thedogscollar · 04/10/2021 20:51

Hun
Babe
You do you
All the above equally infantile and infuriating.

Choconuts · 04/10/2021 20:52

Guesstimate - it's either a guess or an estimate.

Source - why does everyone source everything nowadays why can't we just find things anymore????

Ibelieveinghosts · 04/10/2021 20:52

Pud - I could cheerfully kill anyone who says this. It is pudding. Almost invariably said by middle class women who are obviously so busy running their kids to various vicarious activities etc in the SUV that they haven’t got time to say “big” aaarrrggghhhh!!!!!!

Ibelieveinghosts · 04/10/2021 20:52

Ing not big lol

Loubilou09 · 04/10/2021 20:53

Nom nom, wage (it’s salary), The fam - what on earth is so difficult about adding “ily” on the end

TaraR2020 · 04/10/2021 20:53

"For sure"

Yes also to hollibobs, lil' , fur babies and doggo

Also "bey"

What's wrong with dollop??

SocksAndTheCity · 04/10/2021 20:55

People saying 'issue' when they mean 'problem'. Nobody is allowed to have problems nowadays.

'Party' and 'inbox' being used as verbs 🤮

optimistic40 · 04/10/2021 20:56

So many hate Nana or Nan, but I think that Granny sounds dreadful!

Hummingbirdcake · 04/10/2021 20:57

I think Brufen is a brand name for ibuprofen in the US.

Signoftimes · 04/10/2021 20:57

Hun/Hon

Bunchymcbunchface · 04/10/2021 20:59

Lush

BoredZelda · 04/10/2021 20:59

Oh and possibly my most hated one, which is mainly on BBC News

My BBC pet hate is “so called” They started it with “so called” ISIS and now it’s so called bloody everything.

av3nturin3 · 04/10/2021 20:59

Invite instead of “invitation”
Girlfriend
Y’all (and by extension, “Happy Fall, Y’all!!!”) instead of “everyone”/ “all of you”. Sounds especially odd if the speaker isnt from the American South.
We’re pregnant
staycation

BlackeyedSusan · 04/10/2021 20:59

Crimbo
Holibobs
Maccy ds

and right now anything anybody says as I am fucking furious. (thanks hormones)

TrampolineForMrKite · 04/10/2021 21:00

“Poorly” and “tummy” even worse when used together. Not so bad when used around a child, about a child but when it’s someone discussing themselves or another adult it makes me rage.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 04/10/2021 21:01

What the actual fuck is wrong with brew?

Think you need a history lesson.

MyCatEatsPrawnCrackers · 04/10/2021 21:01

@madnessitellyou

Thought of another.

Brufen.

Can anyone medical explain why ibuprofen comes out as brufen?

A local pharmacist calls it 'ibrofen' Confused I hate cuppa and brekkie. I also detest the phrase 'going forward'. Oh, and poop instead of poo.
PricklesTheHedgehog · 04/10/2021 21:01

'Poorly' - please say ill or unwell

'Go smash it' - only if it's a tennis ball

'Cheeky little wine' - ludicrous

'Bab', 'Babe', 'Hun' - no thank you, ever

dementedma · 04/10/2021 21:02

Needs done is definitely Scottish. Hear it all the time here.
The cats wants out
The car needs washed.

coffeepleeease · 04/10/2021 21:02

I use so many of the ones mentioned on here 🤣