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Words that other adults use that irritate you?

999 replies

Mangosmoothiesprinkles · 04/10/2021 19:54

Some examples that seem to irritate me (yes I know it’s totally irrational!).

First is someone calling the tumble dryer ‘the tumblee’ (written phonetically to explain how they pronounce it). Second is ‘homee’ rather than home. I know there is no reason for these to give me the rage but they do.

AIBU to feel irrationally annoyed? What words that other adults use give you the rage?

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FancyLampshade · 04/10/2021 23:32

this one
This.
Did a thing
Can we talk about
Just gonna leave this here
Well played sir
Simples
Boom
Cockwomble
You thought you did something there, didn’t you?
Squad goals

FancyLampshade · 04/10/2021 23:34

On route
Winner winner chicken dinner

Topsyandtimison37 · 04/10/2021 23:35

'My Mrs'
Vino time
Gin O'clock

olidora63 · 04/10/2021 23:35

Toilet…absolutely awful 🤢A loo is a loo in my world!

RobertaFirmino · 04/10/2021 23:35

@waitingforsun

How everything is 'gorgeous' now. Gorgeous cardigan, gorgeous nails, gorgeous crocheted item, gorgeous colour, gorgeous hair. Urgh!
I can't bear it either. Gorgeous name, gorgeous song, gorgeous people, gorgeous fucking balayage.

Teddy when it isn't. As in 'DD has a gorgeous teddy of a monkey'.
Plenty. As in 'He's plenty old enough to know better'.
Switched/swapped out. A new one on me but why is the 'out' needed?

Sorrynotsorry2 · 04/10/2021 23:36

Hubby
Bubs
Happy days
Holibobs
Init

Dontgetyerknicksinatwist · 04/10/2021 23:37

Supper
Fish and chip supper - if it’s fish and chips for dinner it has to be called a fish and chip supper. Why?

Sorrynotsorry2 · 04/10/2021 23:39

Belly

HereForThis · 04/10/2021 23:40

Middle class
Working class
Upper class
Upper middle class
Posh
Poshos
Haz (for Harry)
Hazza (for Harry)
Celeb

Just done with all of it.

Leavemyspongesalone · 04/10/2021 23:40

Tummy for stomach
Choccy for chocolate

Pacific instead of specific.

rosyvalentine · 04/10/2021 23:44

"I was sat" on the bus/in the bar etc. Drives me mad. Such bad grammar.

Carefully curated

Mains (for main course)

Guac (for guacamole)

Lifeisforalimitedperiodonly · 04/10/2021 23:53

I hate the use of ‘not a problem’ when being served.

Are you ready to order?
Yes please.
Not a problem.
I’d like the soup as a starter please
Not a problem
Then the gammon and fries
Not a problem
etc
DID I SAY IT WAS A FUCKING PROBLEM???

Also I loathe the American use of ‘anxious’. Do they know what anxiety is? My US friend said she has ordered a new paperback and was ‘anxious to receive it’. NO!! She was EXCITED to receive it! She might be anxious if it was a tax bill that came through the door though. I try to tell her that she means she is excited if she is looking forward to something. If she’s worried or nervous about it she is anxious.
But then she was anxious to try the new milkshake she had just bought. I give up.

FancyLampshade · 05/10/2021 00:08

@rosyvalentine

"I was sat" on the bus/in the bar etc. Drives me mad. Such bad grammar.

Carefully curated

Mains (for main course)

Guac (for guacamole)

It’s not bad grammar; it’s colloquial.
MilesOfSand · 05/10/2021 00:11

Problematic is problematic for me.

FancyLampshade · 05/10/2021 00:11

Mom

or anyone referring to another person (who is not their mother) as mum, mom or mummy

Eg, at the doctors - how’s mum doing?

I’m not even a parent but it is definitely on my list of reasons I’d reconsider becoming one

Bluekangaroo123 · 05/10/2021 00:12

Agree with a lot of what’s been said already. I would also add:
Deets as in ‘I’ll send you the deets of where we’re meeting.’
‘eat ALL the cake’
Anything to do with gin (think it’s been mentioned already).
Using the word hats to describe different roles e.g. ‘I have my work hat & my mum hat.’

FancyLampshade · 05/10/2021 00:13

@MilesOfSand

Problematic is problematic for me.
Yeah it’s a way of people distancing themselves from the subjectivity of their opinions. It means ‘I’ve got a problem with this’
FancyLampshade · 05/10/2021 00:14

@Bluekangaroo123

Agree with a lot of what’s been said already. I would also add: Deets as in ‘I’ll send you the deets of where we’re meeting.’ ‘eat ALL the cake’ Anything to do with gin (think it’s been mentioned already). Using the word hats to describe different roles e.g. ‘I have my work hat & my mum hat.’
Yes Grin
Standstheclockattentothree · 05/10/2021 00:20

Putting a random 's' at the end of words eg freedoms and harms. What?

Veggies. God I can't bear it.

Two times as much instead of twice. Mainly on TV adverts. Has the word twice been banned?

Standstheclockattentothree · 05/10/2021 00:21

Oh and tricky. Everything's bloody tricky.

MmNc01 · 05/10/2021 00:21

Kiddo
Dude
Banter
Epic
Slay
Anyhoo

TartanJumper · 05/10/2021 00:28

@Lifeisforalimitedperiodonly

I hate the use of ‘not a problem’ when being served.

Are you ready to order?
Yes please.
Not a problem.
I’d like the soup as a starter please
Not a problem
Then the gammon and fries
Not a problem
etc
DID I SAY IT WAS A FUCKING PROBLEM???

Also I loathe the American use of ‘anxious’. Do they know what anxiety is? My US friend said she has ordered a new paperback and was ‘anxious to receive it’. NO!! She was EXCITED to receive it! She might be anxious if it was a tax bill that came through the door though. I try to tell her that she means she is excited if she is looking forward to something. If she’s worried or nervous about it she is anxious.
But then she was anxious to try the new milkshake she had just bought. I give up.

That is a perfectly correct use of anxious though as I understand it.

adjective
adjective: anxious
1.
feeling or showing worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome.
"she was extremely anxious about her exams"
2.
very eager or concerned to do something or for something to happen.
"the company was anxious to avoid any trouble"

MiddleEasternMummy · 05/10/2021 00:31

@optimistic40

So many hate Nana or Nan, but I think that Granny sounds dreadful!
Totally agree !! Gran and grandma remind me of an ancient pensioner with white hair sitting in a rocking chair by the fire knitting . Nan much more glamorous .
DynastyBarry · 05/10/2021 00:55

Paninis - panini is already plural.
Serviette
Pardon
Thing instead of Think when used in 'you've got another think coming'
Wallah

Agree with invite

simitra · 05/10/2021 00:56

Boomer - for people born in the 1940s

Class - pronounced "clarse" as though there were an R in it.

Talk to me - when we are already talking

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