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Not to share casino winnings with boyfriend?

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ratliiie · 04/10/2021 17:20

Me and my boyfriend went to the casino for food last night.
He didn't bet but I played £20 and I won just over £400 on the slots.
I didn't share with him as he wasn't playing ...aibu?
I'm starting to worry incase he expected it
We didn't agree anything
What would you have done?
We have been together 3 months.

OP posts:
Cocomarine · 04/10/2021 18:03

@ratliiie

I bought the drinks for the rest of the night and spent around £50
That’s enough. I’ve been married 12 years and occasionally my husband will play roulette in a casino at the end of the night - and I don’t. I still wouldn’t expect his winnings and that’s more than 90 days!
NutellaEllaElla · 04/10/2021 18:04

Would you expect him to split the loss of the £20 if you didn't win anything?

You've been more than generous, don't worry

BrilliantBetty · 04/10/2021 18:05

You have bought enough, it's yours, don't worry about it.

Watchingyou2sleezes · 04/10/2021 18:27

@ratliiie

I bought the drinks for the rest of the night and spent around £50
This was more than enough
pelosi · 04/10/2021 18:28

Don't set a precedent by sharing the money,

Drinks were more than enough.

Fromablokespoint · 06/10/2021 15:13

Why would he expect it? - Has he asked?

Spidey66 · 06/10/2021 15:24

The drinks are enough at your stage of the relationship. Youre fine.

HarrietsChariot · 06/10/2021 15:27

Has he said or done anything to make you think he thinks you should have shared it? Or is it all in your head, classic overthinking?

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