If you’re friends with your ex partners new girlfriend or you get on with her, do you trust her? I’m asking because I’ve recently met his girlfriend, her daughter just started reception at the school, so we met there and talk. First time I met her I said hi and gave her a hug just telling her how nice it was to finally meet her, and we spoke for a bit. Next day ex texting me saying “oh so you like giving hugs now” as a joke so obviously she must have told him which is fine cuz it was our first meeting.
But since then we see each other everyday day and sometimes take the kids to the park after school, we spoke for an hour there and I try to avoid speaking about ex, and just keep the conversation light but she made a joke about ex being a hoarder and she can’t keep up with the housework which we both laughed at.
Then again next day ex texted me saying” oh so you’re trying to be friends “ I know it’s a joke but I have a feeling it makes him uncomfortable that we talk. And I just don’t understand her need to go home to ex and tell him every time she talks to me. I will never trust her, hence why I keep conversations light and only talk about things I don’t mind her/him knowing but I just find it weird she has this need to report to ex every time she talks to me .