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To get a slightly older puppy?

30 replies

Mickarooni · 02/10/2021 18:25

A friend’s mum breeds and shows dogs. She had a litter and one buyer decided they didn’t want the puppy and he’s been returned. :( I know he’s from a good line and has been health tested etc. Puppy is over 5 months and this breed usually goes home at 12 weeks. Friend knows I am considering a dog having lost my old boy some time ago.
I’ve not even made proper enquiries but I’m curious if I’ll have missed any key socialising time by having a slightly older dog.

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JoborPlay · 02/10/2021 22:54

@WorraLiberty

Probably not at 5 months

But personally I wouldn't encourage dog breeders anyway

What's wrong with looking to adopt?

If you have cats, younger children or work out of home it's virtually impossible to find a UK rescue that'll let you adopt a dog. Plus the increased risks of taking on a dog with an unknown history. I don't agree with most breeders but I'm really starting to realise why people buy rather than adopt! I've spent 4 years on and off looking for a rescue we can re-home a dog from!

Depending on why it had been returned and what dog, I'd take it.

icedcoffees · 02/10/2021 23:10

Toy breeds are often very difficult to house train and can suffer with separation anxiety as they're generally bred as companions.

They wouldn't be my first choice.

Like PP I know someone who took on a totally unsocialised rescue and it's been really bloody hard. He'd never been around other dogs, horses, cars, cats - he was a nightmare for ages. Even now, two years later, he struggles and can be very reactive.

I honestly wouldn't do it.

bowchicawowwow · 02/10/2021 23:21

I agree with @Smileforthebirdie. It's not unusual for pedigree dogs to be 'run-on' to see how their how their show potential develops and then sold at a later date. Mine was returned to the breeder by his first owners as he showed early signs of not making the breed standard. Some pedigree homes have quite a ruthless approach but even if they don't treat them as 'fur babies' it doesn't mean they are any less cared for, trained or socialised.

Blossomtoes · 03/10/2021 15:56

The risk factor is too much for us to contemplate a rescue dog. There are a few people around here who have adopted who I meet when walking ours. With a couple of exceptions they’ve found it really tough. The dogs appear to be either very nervous and timid or reactive, it’s not for me.

ThinWomansBrain · 03/10/2021 16:14

if you get him, post a photo Smile
if he was only with the first purchasers for a few days and the rest with the breeder, he should be reasonably well socialised.

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