After a covid redundancy I went self employed. We received UC (thank god!) as DH unable to work. I’ve since gone self employed and don’t often receive UC, though occasionally get a little when my income drops.
I had to go to the job centre to prove I was ‘gainfully self employed’, ie not working an hour a week making cakes while not looking for work.
They are perfectly happy with everything, but officially I’m classed as ‘not gainfully self employed’ as I have a child under three.
In reality this means there’s no minimum hours and therefore no minimum income I’m expected to make, which is great - I appreciate new mothers have that.
My AIBU is the wording. I’ve worked so hard and do 60+ hours a week to support my family. I feel the terminology undermines women in business and our hard work. Couldn’t the just say exempt?
I know it’s not a big thing, but why do I feel irked? Why do we systematically minimise working mothers’ contributions?