So my DH works in a creative industry where people generally wear pretty casual gear. Jeans and a T-shirt or jumper are the norm. He always wears clean clothes and looks neat and well groomed.
The issue is his mother. She regularly makes comments about how he needs to start dressing like an adult, and she keeps buying him formal shirts, ties and trousers. During the summer we went away for a few days (during the heatwave) and she gave him so much grief about bringing shorts with him instead of smart trousers. He was so self conscious we had to go out of our way to go shopping for clothes. Of course once we got to our destination and went out for dinner, the other men were dressed in the kind of casual gear that my DH would normally wear. We weren't going anywhere fancy.
The last time she started making comments (not in front of DH) I pointed out that his workplace was casual and he would look out of place if he dressed up. Still she carries on. He went to see her at the weekend and she had bought yet more shirts for him.
AIBU to find this really annoying and kind of disrespectful to DH?