Nothing or Something?

[WayneBruce]

DH gave me his phone as he was expecting a call, so I admit to having a quick snoop.

Saw a message instigated by DH friend ex wife over the summer having a reminisce, said she was sorting out her life and wanted to get things straight (along those lines) and wanted a zoom catch up, but said DH was to arrange. DH replied v friendly but no zoom call arranged or referenced.
Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago. There's a text message, ex wife has tickets to a gig, no one to go with did DH? DH was working so said no but said Namechange loves them, so she'd go. Next message is the tickets are now not available.

Am I reading something into nothing?

Something.

Or someone with no social awareness at all.

Even if there was “something” on her part it seems like your DH isn’t remotely interested.

She is fishing for a shag he is showing his disinterest and pointing out you exist

It is hard to say, however I don't think you have anything to worry about with DH.

I might ask my ex, who I’m still friends with, if he’d like to go to a gig with me if it was an artist we were both fans of. I can’t say I’d particularly want to go with his girlfriend because we don’t have anything in common and I find her a bit odd, and so it would be an awkward evening. I wouldn’t say that, obviously, I’d also probably pretend it was now sold out. I’d think that’s more or less the situation here, and not much else.

You’re breaking his trust by snooping in the first place

I wouldn’t worry. It sounds like she likes him and is trying it on and he is either uninterested or unaware she fancies him.

This woman is either angling to shag your husband or she's one of the most socially clueless, inappropriate people out there. Your husband would be wise to block her.

She’s fishing. He’s not interested