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to be pissed off she switched our identical mouse mats

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Cheeseandlobster · 27/09/2021 21:07

I sit next to a lovely lady at work. Janice. She is really knowledgeable and has mentored me and a few others. We are not friends as such but as colleagues we get on really well.

I have rsi and she has carpal tunnel so we both have mouse mats with a gel support cushion. Last week mine started leaking. The gel is the stickiest substance known to mankind and just seems to spread everywhere. As a result the bottom row of my keyboard is so sticky the whole thing might need replacing, my photo of ds has had to be binned as have some of my documents. Its OK I thought. This stuff happens and I binned the mat.

Until today. I found yet another fucking sticky patch on my desk and 2 of my colleagues said "Oh has Janice confessed yet?" It turns out it was Janice's mouse mat that had leaked and she switched it with mine. She watched me bin my photo of ds and struggle with a now difficult to use keyboard and said nothing.

I know it's a relatively small issue but I just feel this is a bit off and I think Janice should have binned hers and ordered herself a new one rather than contaminate my desk with impenetrable sticky shit. Aibu to be peeved and to look at Janice in a slightly different light now

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RavingAnnie · 28/09/2021 01:08

Well Janice has shown has true colours hasn't she!

Bloody hell. Dick move followed by them at WhatsApp message! Who does that! No shame!

MitheringMytryl · 28/09/2021 02:01

She sounds like a bit of a dick. I would certainly not think of her as nice.

RantyAunty · 28/09/2021 02:17

That is rather mean of her.

Crap like that is exactly why I never want to work in an office again.

I am puzzled why you continued using something that ruined your keyboard and photo?

She should buy you a new mousepad and keyboard.

Slothkin · 28/09/2021 02:37

I used to be an office manager and if I’d found out someone had pulled that kind of shit it would be straight to HR/management/whoever I needed to be a pain in the bum to to get it dealt with. Absolutely unacceptable.

BudrosBudrosGalli · 28/09/2021 02:41

Stick tiny pins in her office chair... Grin

1forAll74 · 28/09/2021 03:24

It kind of made me laugh, as in the way you have written about all this,, but yes, a sneaky thing for your work friend to do.She needs to make amends somehow.

WhoNeedsaManOfTheWorld · 28/09/2021 06:24

I would say to her I didn't actually find that funny
In a cold, hard way. I can be cold and hard when necessary. See what her response is

sonjadog · 28/09/2021 06:30

It will get back to her that you don’t think this is funny. I would make it clear to everyone else that you are upset about this and what you think of her for pulling a stunt like this. She will end up looking like a dick in front of everyone.

Cheeseandlobster · 28/09/2021 09:16

Loving the "Fuck off Janice" mouse mat from Etsy Grin. I am going to retaliate though I now have her number so every conversation will just be perfunctory and I shall no longer be enthusiastic over endless photos of her grandchildren. I shall be busy.

To answer the question, I didn't keep using it after. But the sticky had already invaded and it just seems to spread. I am still finding sticky things even now. This shit is the stickiest stuff that ever existed

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Cheeseandlobster · 28/09/2021 09:17
  • not going to retaliate that should read
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Cheeseandlobster · 28/09/2021 09:19

Oh and the company supply everything so I am not out of pocket. Its the sneakiness of it and the selfish attitude that has pissed me off

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Underpaidsnackbitch · 28/09/2021 09:25

WD40 might help remove the sticky places. Janice is a dick!

Runningoverthefields · 28/09/2021 09:47

Janice is a fundamentally selfish person, and judging from her message to you, OP, she doesn't even have the empathy or common decency to apologise. After watching you throw away a picture of your DS without saying a word... YANBU - OP don't trust Janice.

Oh, and by the way, Thehop made a tongue-in-cheek suggestion of poisoning her with eye drops. Since 'The Wedding Crashers' people think this is a naughty-but-fundamentally-harmless prank. But it can cause fatal heart/breathing problems. The person could turn blue and die in front of you before the humorous diarrhoea starts. Like the hot iron hitting a guy in the head in 'Home Alone' - funny in a movie, but please don't try it in real life unless you like prison food. (Sorry to be such a killjoy, but I always overreact to that suggested joke because I have a heart condition, and it probably would kill me).

MichelleScarn · 28/09/2021 09:55

Oh Janet is devious. With all the japes and laughter, clearly trying to make out its all a big joke and just funny Hmm so if you complain or make a fuss you're the killjoy.
New stuff and lock it all away now.

timeisnotaline · 28/09/2021 10:02

Maybe the office manager could swap your desks and Janet get the sticky one, you get another one not next to her. I don’t think I could look at another grandchild picture without wanting to ask and does little granddaughter play nasty tricks on her classmates Janet?

CanofCant · 28/09/2021 10:23

Oh, and by the way, Thehop made a tongue-in-cheek suggestion of poisoning her with eye drops. Since 'The Wedding Crashers' people think this is a naughty-but-fundamentally-harmless prank. But it can cause fatal heart/breathing problems. The person could turn blue and die in front of you before the humorous diarrhoea starts.

Yeah, I'm sure this has been used as a method of murder in Poirot or another crime mystery.

NotMyselfWithoutCoffee · 28/09/2021 10:28

That's so strange I don't know why she wouldn't have just binned it and ordered another one from stationary.
Definitely shows a nastier side to her though. I'm thinking the niceness is just a front, the fact she was laughing and didn't reply says all really.

NotMyselfWithoutCoffee · 28/09/2021 10:29

"reply" apologise I mean.

Hoppinggreen · 28/09/2021 10:33

Janice is probably nice in the same way my MIL is nice
When she’s playing the big I AM in the office and sharing her knowledge and how bloody wonderful she is she is indeed a lovely wonderful person. Don’t completely play into her narrative and then God help you

GoIntoTheLight · 28/09/2021 10:37

Dick move, Janice.

LookItsMeAgain · 28/09/2021 11:08

Could you do this one (see prank 3 on this website) @Cheeseandlobster -
snacknation.com/blog/office-pranks/

Harmless enough but really irritating if every photo on every website is of Nicolas Cage!

tickledtiger · 28/09/2021 11:24

Janice is a shit.

If you do something in response it could end up getting twisted so you look like the bad guy (especially if she’s senior). Realistically I’d just stop being friendly with her, the photo reels of her family can fuck off for starters. What a waste of time.

QueenBee52 · 28/09/2021 13:05

@Underpaidsnackbitch

WD40 might help remove the sticky places. Janice is a dick!

yeah WD40 is a miracle 🤩

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