My aunt hosted a get to gather gathering to celebrate my uncles wife birthday and invited the whole family except me . The family is very small so except for my aunts and her kids and husband and my uncles wife and their toddler she invited my dad and his wife and kids . On the day of the gathering I get a call from my aunts daughter asking if I'm free , I assumed she asking because she wants to talk on the phone and I said yes then she said ' because mums having a birthday celebration for Zoe and she forgot to invite you and it's right now ' I then said well it's abut short notice for me to just come over now . I also have a toddler so I can't be told things last minute . Anyways am I wrong for feeling offended at not only her forgetting to invite me even though we have been in contact throughout the week , but also for her not calling me to tell me herself and apologise . Am I exaggerating