Before I start I’m not a needy person, I give my boyfriend the space he needs, we actually only see each other once a week due to work and distance. I’m not particularly happy with this but for now that’s how it is.
So I asked him she’s ago if he wanted to go away for his birthday he said no he probably will just spend it with his family. I was disappointed because it was the first time we could do something like this together but his birthday whatever. His plans changed and he asked me if I wanted to do something in the morning for his birthday. I was happy he wanted to spend it with me, it feels like the next step I guess? Anyway I booked it and randomly he was like oh we might go to dinner actually a few weeks later. So I cancelled it, I booked a restaurant he’s always wanted to go to, even booked to get my nails done. It’s now coming up and I said so what’s the plans, he said he’s just going to spend it with his mates.
I feel really upset if he said from the beginning I would probably feel differently. I feel like we have completely different expectations in a relationship. I don’t want to bring it to look like a brat. Thanks for reading this far!