To think he’s unlikely to message

[Tennismanfour]

Met a guy on a night out, we hit it for and he mentioned a few times how well we were getting on and how pretty I was etc, I liked him a lot

He lives very far away and we made drunken plans for me to visit him soon

At the end of the visit he took my number but it has been a few hours and have heard nothing... can I assume he won’t contact me? Left early this morning, nothing happened, he was staying at a friends house

Sorry that should say hit it off

Calm down. He's probably asleep.

A few hours?!! It's Sunday morning, he's probably still asleep. Calm down.

He might, he might not, you can always message him. BUT: it has been hours not a day or two.

Did you meet him last night? Give it more time. If he likes you, he'll message.

Give him a bit of time, Jesus Christ

You are putting a lot of store in someone who you met briefly and while drunk. It's way too soon to be expecting to hear from him. If he lives far enough away for you to stay over, don't put yourself in danger, you know nothing about him.

A few hours? I don’t know if he’ll message you, but to be honest, if he’d already messaged, I’d be thinking that was a bit weird. Give him a few days.

Do you mean he left early this morning ie he stayed the night with you?

If i were him I'd be more focused on a bacon roll and some more sleep

Give him a chance OP :-)

I gave a guy my number after I met him in a club. He didn't call for 3 days.

We have been together for nearly 30 years now and married for 21 of them.

We have 2 kids and are very happy. Be patient. Give him a chance. Not everything has to happen at lightening speed.

A few hours?

Are you serious?

Early this morning? Wow, it's taken me longer than that to reply to my closest friend before. Plus he's probably sleeping, I went to bed early last night and would possibly still be sleeping if I didn't have kids.