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To watch and wait as the JVCI suggested?

71 replies

Marypoppins19 · 25/09/2021 18:58

I have two boys both fully vaccinated with the childhood vaccinations etc

I’m coming under a little pressure from opposing views. I’m certainly not saying no but more that I just want more information in relation to side effects particularly in boys and would rather wait.

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Witchcraftandhokum · 25/09/2021 19:14

Are the side effects known to be different in girls and boys?

kowari · 25/09/2021 19:24

@Witchcraftandhokum

Are the side effects known to be different in girls and boys?
Yes, boys have a much higher risk of myocarditis than girls. www.theguardian.com/world/2021/sep/10/boys-more-at-risk-from-pfizer-jab-side-effect-than-covid-suggests-study "They estimate the rate of myocarditis after two shots of Pfizer/BioNTech vaccine to be 162.2 cases per million for healthy boys aged 12 to 15 and 94 cases per million for healthy boys aged 16 to 17. The equivalent rates for girls were 13.4 and 13 cases per million, respectively. At current US infection rates, the risk of a healthy adolescent being taken to hospital with Covid in the next 120 days is about 44 per million, they said."
FelicityBeedle · 25/09/2021 19:25

At 12 minimum they’re really old enough to decide for their selves. Ask them

ThisIsNotAMill · 25/09/2021 19:30

Yanbu.

I'm in the same boat, two eligible young teens who won't be having it. The risk of being hospitalised from side effects of the vaccine is higher for young boys than the risks of the virus. It was an easy decision for me based on that, regardless of the government think they should take one for the team.

noblegiraffe · 25/09/2021 19:30

Watch and wait = catching covid, as Chris Whitty said.

If you wait, with current transmission rates in secondary kids as high as they are, they will catch covid. That's the choice, not anything else.

kowari · 25/09/2021 19:34

They will more than likely catch covid regardless, if they haven't already had it. It would be helpful if teens were given antibody tests as that could change the risk vs benefit balance.

ThisIsNotAMill · 25/09/2021 19:35

Based on the fact that covid is less of a risk to them than the vaccine, I'm fine with that tbh.

dementedpixie · 25/09/2021 19:36

I thought the risk of myocarditis was higher when getting the 2nd dose but this age group is only getting 1 dose.

noblegiraffe · 25/09/2021 19:37

@ThisIsNotAMill

Based on the fact that covid is less of a risk to them than the vaccine, I'm fine with that tbh.
That's not what the JCVI said. The opposite in fact.
dementedpixie · 25/09/2021 19:38

From the link:

Most children who experienced the rare side-effect had symptoms within days of the second shot of Pfizer/BioNTech vaccine, though a similar side-effect is seen with the Moderna jab. About 86% of the boys affected required some hospital care, the authors said.

Comedycook · 25/09/2021 19:39

I have a teenage boy who has had every vaccination the NHS offers. He won't be getting the covid vaccination...yet. I'm double jabbed but I'd rather hold off for him.

noblegiraffe · 25/09/2021 19:41

So long as you know that holding off means catching covid.

choccohoopz · 25/09/2021 19:42

Mine teenage DS caught covid, not a single symptom so no vaccine for him.

Iggly · 25/09/2021 19:45

@FelicityBeedle

At 12 minimum they’re really old enough to decide for their selves. Ask them
My son is 12 in a matter of days and I don’t think he is capable of deciding.

If I told him about the risk of heart inflammation he would probably be pretty worried and I’m not surprised to be honest.

I said to my partner that it’s easier to make the decision for myself because if anything went wrong, I’d blame myself. But if my DS had any issues I would find it hard to take - and I’d rather he got covid to be honest because at least then that’s the luck of the draw - more so than deliberately giving him a vaccine.

I’m genuinely torn on this one.

hopeishere · 25/09/2021 19:45

@noblegiraffe

So long as you know that holding off means catching covid.
No it doesn't Hmm. You can catch covid with the vaccine anyway.
kowari · 25/09/2021 19:45

@noblegiraffe

So long as you know that holding off means catching covid.
Many teens have already had it.
Iggly · 25/09/2021 19:46

That's not what the JCVI said. The opposite in fact

I thought it was statistically insignificant but marginally better to be vaccinated? I’m going to have to read up again!

kowari · 25/09/2021 19:46

No it doesn't. You can catch covid with the vaccine anyway.
Exactly, five double jabbed people have had it at work in the last few weeks.

Tuliprain · 25/09/2021 19:48

I really don’t know what to do here. She doesn’t want the vaccine but not because she’s thought about risks etc - she just doesn’t want the injection. I don’t know what’s for the best.

SheWoreYellow · 25/09/2021 19:49

I’d like to find out more about myocarditis. What I’ve read so far has been reassuring, in that it isn’t very long lived, but I haven’t looked into it very deeply.

Marypoppins19 · 25/09/2021 19:53

I’ve been double jabbed and caught Covid and was grotty. My boys didn’t catch it. As they have been in school throughout, I’m a teacher, I’m pretty sure they have had it. So that’s the first reason for waiting.

So many of my class have had it and just had very mild symptoms so I think that’s partly causing me not to rush into it.

Lastly my younger son is having some cardiac tests for fainting spells so I want to find out more about myocarditis first

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noblegiraffe · 25/09/2021 19:55

No it doesn't hmm. You can catch covid with the vaccine anyway.

Indeed, but Chris Whitty pointed out that waiting means it's almost certain they will catch covid. It is not correct to compare not getting vaccinated with nothing happening, rather not getting vaccinated with catching covid.

www.theguardian.com/society/2021/sep/22/chris-whitty-warns-mps-it-is-inevitable-unvaccinated-children-will-catch-covid

noblegiraffe · 25/09/2021 19:57

I thought it was statistically insignificant but marginally better to be vaccinated?

No, not statistically insignificant.

The health benefits of being vaccinated outweigh the risks by a small margin, not a statistically insignificant one.

canigooutyet · 25/09/2021 19:57

The JCVI will just be ignored anyway.. It was them who highlighted the risk/benefit to begin with and look where that has got us.

I agree that we should now be doing antibody tests, not only for children but also for the boosters.

So long as you know that holding off means catching covid.

Not all the unvaccinated will get it, they may have already had it at this point and have natural antibodies.
Same with not everyone who has had both vaccines won't get the virus.

YouMeandtheSpew · 25/09/2021 20:01

If it helps, you can buy antibody tests privately, for about £60. I did it when I was deciding whether to get the vaccine. I had no antibodies so decided the balance of risk was firmly in favour of getting the vaccine.

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