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The Simpsons.

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Justbecauseofit · 22/09/2021 09:50

Just wondered what people thought of this.

So The Simpsons has been a long running cartoon which has been on at around 6pm on ‘general tv’ for a very long time. I remember watching it as a kid myself, it was a normal thing just to be on the tv ‘in the background’ in our home.

A lot of the jokes of course, very political, went over my head, way too young for me to understand. When I was an adult I of course saw the programme in a different light of understanding. But otherwise, it was a common thing for us children to watch on my home and for others at school in my youth, so much I even remember sitting at my friends house and watching it with her family when I went over for tea (primary school).

So my DD is 10. Being a cartoon she’s sat and watched it briefly a few times when nothing has been on and she’s either eating her tea or just generally pottering around.

We have Disney plus, which she’s been watching more. Most recently, I’d say over the past few days she’s been watching the old reruns of The Simpson’s. I noticed the r rating was a 12 - which I didn’t think too much of, some mild sweating which she knows not to repeat but me and my partner sat down to watch with her the other day (it’s been years since both of us watched it!) and was surprised at how much we forgot the inappropriateness for a child of her age!
The swearing and the showing of cartoon ‘butts’ doesn’t bother me, it’s the constant references to sex I didn’t realise exactly how much there was - probably because when I was younger it completely went over my head enough for me to realise what was going on! I cringed at one point at a scene with Ned Flanders and a typical ‘tall sexy blonde’ and as much as she has not asked about sex yet I know she probably has somewhat of an idea, she does okay with older children at school. In my view now, some of the scenes are enough to guess that sex is a thing between adults and it happens frequently.

She has not mentioned anything I’m very surprised she did not turn around and ask what it was.

As much as I don’t usually mind her watching 12 rated things at 10 depending what it is - it had been enough for me to question this so I was wondering what everyone else’s take on it is? Do you or would you let your children of the same age watch it?

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bruffin · 22/09/2021 16:33

My DC used to watch Simpsons before going to bed from very little, it was part of their bedtime routine

Just because it's not harmful doesn't mean it's appropriate.
It went over their heads, but it did quite a bit for DC general knowledge though!

They are mid 20s and really didnt do them any harm

PoolNooodle · 22/09/2021 16:46

[quote activesketchers]@PoolNooodle what's wrong with that scene? Is it the innuendo around 'do not touch willie' (which I always found amusing) Grin[/quote]
Homer says wankers

SeamstressfromTreacleMineRoad · 22/09/2021 16:47

My partner is stricter with the girls, the amount of times “she’s still a child” is said in this house, it mainly comes from him rather than me.

Does your partner realise that she could be starting her periods soon? If not, you might need to break it to him gently... Blush

aSofaNearYou · 22/09/2021 16:54

@icedcoffees

I think that really depends on the child tbh. I watched The Simpsons from being a young kid and can confirm it did me zero harm.

Just because it's not harmful doesn't mean it's appropriate.

Not sure I agree with that. If it does no harm (including passing on inappropriate ideas that could do the child harm) then there's nothing particularly inappropriate about it.
suckingonchillidogs · 22/09/2021 17:05

Love the thought of Ned Flanders corrupting today's kids with his hankily pankily

activesketchers · 22/09/2021 17:16

Weird @PoolNooodle the first time I clicked the link it showed an entirely different clip Confused. Homer does indeed say 'wanker'. Its not an American swearword though which is probably why (a quick google tells me its also used in the Fresh Prince of Bel-air which was another show we watched as kids).

onelittlefrog · 22/09/2021 17:30

I think 10 is on the younger end of OK for the Simpsons, depending on her maturity level. 11 or 12 would be better for some of the episodes.

Most 10 year olds these days do know what sex is and if she doesn't then she probably won't "get" the references anyway, so I don't think I'd be too worried.

onelittlefrog · 22/09/2021 17:35

People saying "It never did me/ my kids any harm"... I think this is a really difficult statement to actually prove.

A lot of people say this about various things in their childhood that really actually did do them some kind of harm, but they just aren't consciously aware of it.

(Having said that, I still think the Simpsons is generally OK ;) And it's impossible to protect a child from any possible harm. I just have a bit of an issue with that "It never did me any harm" claim - because you can't really know!)

BrendaBubbles · 22/09/2021 17:48

Victorian sense of morality is fully back to stay it appears.

bruffin · 22/09/2021 17:50

@onelittlefrog
What harm does it do when they dont understand some of the adult jokes.
I remember taking dc to pantomime when they were teens. They finally got the adult innuendo and couldnt believe how rude it was.

MyPatronusIsACat · 22/09/2021 20:54

I used to love The Simpsons many years ago, but for the first 15 years I would say. Since then it's been a bit mehhh. And when DH puts it on sometimes (at 7pm on ch4 + 1) when we are eating, I find some noises and sounds (like Homer's D'OH! and daft booming voice and laughing, Bart's silly noises, and Lisa's whiny drone,) quite irritating.

Maybe I am just a miserable old curmudgeon now, but I just find it quite annoying most of the time now.

RobertaFirmino · 23/09/2021 14:17

it did quite a bit for DC general knowledge though!

Yes, I've learnt a lot about the USA through watching The Simpsons.

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