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AIBU to ask our neighbour to tidy up his front yard?

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HelpNeedCoolUsername8 · 19/09/2021 16:26

DH and I have been trying to sell our house for some months. All the other houses on our street have sold within days this year, except ours. We are consistently getting feedback that one reason people decided not to buy is that the neighbour’s house looks derelict. One couple even said they would’ve put an offer in if it wasn’t for the neighbour.

The neighbour - it’s not a derelict house, the guy who lives there is nice enough. But he is a hoarder who never cleans, never redecorates etc. The window frames and front door are all badly peeling (have been for the last 10 years), the front yard is totally overgrown, the curtains you can see through the windows are hanging off etc.

A couple of weeks back I went round, explained the situation and asked him to clear it up. He agreed that he would. But all he has done is cut down one large, overgrown buddleia that was hanging half way across the pavement. The yard is still covered in weeds, the doors and windows still need painting, etc. It still looks derelict.

Not really sure what to do next. The council won’t do anything because it’s private property. Offer to clean it up for him?! I really don’t want to offend/upset him (any more than I already have) but it’s stopping us from moving on with our lives and potentially costing us thousands of pounds as we’ll have to bring the price down. Any advice welcome!

OP posts:
HelpNeedCoolUsername8 · 19/09/2021 17:41

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe gotcha, thanks for clarifying.

@SirChenjins agree with you and thought I had explained to him (I apologetically told him about the feedback we’ve had), but I’m not sure he quite understands how bad it looks to others. The fact he’s cleared up the bit encroaching the pavement but nothing else makes me think he probably does feel a certain amount of “why should I bother”.

@TakeYourFinalPosition no we didn’t adjust the price for this. It’s the first house we’ve sold so didn’t really see it coming. I think we’ll have to do a combination of dropping the price and offering to tidy up. We do also emphasise to potential buyers that he’s a quiet/friendly neighbour etc. I don’t really know how to explore ways to find people willing to accept this. Any suggestions?!

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Ikeptgoing · 19/09/2021 17:43

There's good reason buyers will put off as he's neglecting his property maintenance in an attached terraced house

Hoarding if extreme becomes a fire risk. The council only get involved if it becomes an environmental risk (rat infestation, house falling down, lack of running water, etc) Proper extreme stuff that falls under housing legislation.

The best you can do is offer to help clear his front garden 🪴
It sounds like it's not a priority for him. It's only a priority for you as you are selling. I suspect you will take a hit in your sale price same as your sellers did.

simitra · 19/09/2021 18:11

Many years ago when I was first privately renting the house needed a lick of paint, but that was upto the LL. The NDN started a PA conversation about "Why dont you get onto the LL to xxx" so I told her I had "other priorities." "But is shows up our house you know." "Well I dont mind you making rude impertinent remarks so long as you dont mind my telling you to mind your own bloody business."

SirChenjins · 19/09/2021 18:29

That was a bit uncalled for simitra Shock

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 19/09/2021 18:31

No it wasn't uncalled for. The OP has reason to want her neighbour to tidy his yard/paint a bit. simitra's neighbour was being intrusive and nosey - and was rightly put in her place.

SirChenjins · 19/09/2021 18:39

We’ll have to agree to differ.

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