We have been together 9 months, all fine and good. Very loving. Recently since they have gone back to work things have changed. I get they are tired and works extremely hard.
I opened up to them about how i'm feeling, admitted im struggling mentally and feeling so low and have done for a while but put on a brave face. Told them i called the doctor for anti depressants. Their response was they had a bad experience with an ex on them and didnt want me to take them.
So instead of being supportive and asking if i'm ok, thats all they could think about. I feel like its always a competition, like they have been working hard so therefore what am i complaining about.
She says alot of things to me without thinking and ends up making me cry. Today it was " well at 27 i was in a more committed long term relationship" i said oh ok what about us that wasn't a nice comment. Just small little digs and comments that hurt and either she will say its a joke or you've taken it the wrong way.
I just feel its always about her feelings and what she wants to do. Me always helping her, I batch cooked for her yesterday to help her out. Helped with all her house work. She doesnt do it for me.
I just don't know whats happened a few weeks ago i didnt feel like this about us. Its like this new side of her has just come out.
For background a work part time and study so work less than them.