I never post in aibu but I’m not sure if I’m reasonable or not in this situation.
I have an 8 week old baby and been feeling pretty low for a couple of weeks. I know it’s normal to be tired with such a young baby (I have 2 other children as well) but I’ve been finding myself in tears a lot. I feel better for a couple of days and then from nowhere I’m in tears again.
I’ve also been having a poor appetite and feeling very guilty for feeling low and feeling like I’m burdening my husband with how I’ve been feeling.
I have a history of anxiety and take 20mg fluoxetine daily. I didn’t have w great pregnancy- gestational diabetes that needed insulin, sepsis during labour and ended up with an unplanned c section.
I felt so low yesterday that I contacted the gp who basically said it’s pretty much normal to be like that with a young baby because it isn’t all rosy and that they didn’t think I needed a higher dose of anti depressant because “they can make you feel like there’s something wrong with you”.
They did ask me if I have a good supports in place. She then said phone the health visitor who will put you in touch with support groups and give you a questionnaire. I’m assuming this is the Edinburgh scale. I really feel like it was all quite dismissive and that they acknowledge pnd exists but you’ve just got to put up with it. I know this isn’t the attitude of many health professionals but still I felt it wasn’t taken seriously by this particular gp.
Don’t know why i’m really posting this, just need to get it off my chest I think!