AIBU to pack up all her things and store them in the loft/garage?! DD is 24, ‘moved out’ when 17/18 to live at bfs house, came back to us when 20 as relationship broke down, we moved our eldest son (now 16) back in with youngest (now 9) & gave her back her room, decorated etc. They got back together and she basically moved back with bf, but we kept her room for her. Moved to a new house; had her own room but barely stayed here. March this year moved back in more permanently although still with bf - is now 24, has no job - bf pays all bills, but not money towards living here, basically doesn’t contribute in anyway, & they took over the house!! I lost my temper & told her she needed to contribute (cleaning, helping out etc) or move out, so she’s gone back to bfs - but expects us to ‘keep’ her bedroom (so basically storing her things for free) and I have the 16 & 9 year old sharing - who need their own rooms?! I’m already the ‘evil, wicked mother’ what do I do?!?