I have had a falling out with my partners sister and have decided I dont want her in our lives at all.
She only sees my son at special occasions she makes no effort outwith and although is good with him, they have no bond. She sent me a horrible txt about something bothering her and when I replied she told me to p*ss off. This caused upset and anxiety with me and I dont have to or want to deal with, from someone I barely know.
My partner doesn't live with me and we have a rocky relationship at the moment so I defo do not need any further stress.
Am I being unreasonable for banning her from our lives? I hardly know the girl, my son hardly knows her. She may be lashing out at me due to stresses going on in the family, I feel like she sees me as an easy target and I have been told she is known for doing this. If will not invite her to any parties or attend any she is hosting. I know this will become an issue and I will painted the bad one.