He has ds for 2 nights a week. DS loves to spend time with his dad but is always happy to come home and never asks to see his dad when home, he's settled and happy.
Ex is insistent on, when he drops him off, making comments like "5 sleeps until you see me, it won't be long". Now I know DS doesn't need that reassurance, like I said he's happy at home and I know him inside out... he really is fine, but it's really starting to get on my nerves. DS does not need to count down the days he's with me, almost planting a seed of saying, "don't worry it'll soon be over". He's saying it for his own ego. He has always had an issue with not feeling equal and the mother vs father role.
Today he dropped DS off at school and had a bit of a tricky time (unrelated matter..) anyway he told me about it and made a massive point of saying that DS is probably so upset that it's such a long time until he sees him and they have such a good time together doing so many different activities that he doesn't want to go to school. My jaw nearly hit the floor.
AIBU to be getting annoyed with Ex comments and feeling like he's trying to make my time with him feel inferior!