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To think everyone has at least one weird coincidence story

221 replies

hazelnutpraline · 13/09/2021 15:59

These are mine:

I was showing DP some old photos from before I met him and came across one of my best friend dancing at a (big, thousands of people) festival. We both noticed at the same time that the only other person in the picture, dancing behind her, was HIS best friend. We hadn't met at that point, it was several years before we did, and none of us lived in the same part of the country.

Years ago when I smoked, my friend and I were sitting on the steps of a nightclub wanting a cigarette but neither of us had a lighter. We asked a man walking towards us for a light but he just gave us a dirty look and ignored us. As he walked past where we were sitting, a lighter fell out of his back pocket without him noticing, right in front of our feet.

Please tell me yours!

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deste · 18/09/2021 10:33

My DH and I were on a skiing holiday abroad, it was our last day so decided to have one last run. If you have ever been up a 6 seater chairlift you'll know that you queue up 6 deep. People come in from all directions. We got on the lift with three people in their twenties. When the girl heard our accent she asked where we were from and by coincidence it was the same city she came from but she now worked in Germany. They were visiting the resort for a last minute weekend away. I asked how old she was as she looked the same age as my DD, she was the same age. She asked my DDs name and then said that she was invited to my DDs wedding two weeks later.

Thatsplentyjack · 18/09/2021 14:13

When my ds was nearly a year old he had a bad accident. It was a horrendous time, and still makes me cry to this day. Anyway, he had to go for check ups once a week for a while. Sitting in the waiting room waiting to see the doctor and he started playing with this little boy. We got chatting to his mum and it turned out her little boy had had the same accident, had almost identical injuries, and had is accident 2 days before ds. Not only that but they had the same first name and her wee boy was just 3 days older than ds.

Thatsplentyjack · 18/09/2021 14:13

Sorry, he was nearly a year and a half old.

AntsMarching · 18/09/2021 14:35

I once went to a friend's house where she had some of her work colleagues over as well. I'd never met them. Talking to a guy and he asks where I'm from (we were in Texas). I tell him the state I'm from, which is a 17 hour drive away. He asks what town, so I say near X big city because I'm from a small town. He says what is it called, I tell him and he asks if I know Sam and Amanda Jenkins (not their actual names). Not only did I know them, they lived up the road from where I grew up and are my parents best friends. They are his aunt and uncle.

HemlockStarglimmer · 18/09/2021 15:27

A friend of my dad, let's call him Bob Jones, had a minor incident with a bus. The driver of the bus was called Bob Jones too. And the policeman who arrived to sort it was also called Bob Jones

Vilanelle · 18/09/2021 15:44

I travelled to Salford to stay in a small bed and breakfast as I was attending a gig in Manchester. As I walked in with my partner there were 2 girls in front of us who went in a room. As we walked past she shouted my name. It was my ex (of 6 years) sister!

Zeal · 18/09/2021 19:03

I just came on this thread to see how it was doing. Guess what? I am drinking an after meal coffee and eating a Lindt hazelnut praline. The OP's name is @hazelnutpraline

How about that then.

Slub · 18/09/2021 20:58

The man I was seeing who ghosted me is now dating my doppelgänger. We dress the same and it's hilarious on the rare occasions we are in the same place the new GF is dressed like me (and she gives me the hard stare like I've planned it ) Grin

HelloDaisy · 18/09/2021 22:55

I met dh in my early 30s and although we are from the same town neither of us have any recollections of meeting beforehand.

However we were together at birth as our mums were on the same ward in the maternity hospital. My mum remembered his mum as mine was a nurse there and his mum was in for 6 months whilst pregnant with him!

Onlyfoolsandhorseswork · 18/09/2021 23:24

My sil was diagnosed with battens disease when she was 7 (1982)
She died in 2000
She was born the day before her dads birthday (what a present!) and it just so happens that the date she died is my birthday-I met her brother in 2015 so sadly never got to meet her

Justforphotos · 19/09/2021 00:35

A couple from me:

  • my mum is from a small Asian country. My MIL in Australia has a friend from that country called, for the sake of this story, Bobby. We were talking to my mum about whether Bobby was an unusual name for that country as I hadn’t heard it used there and she said “no, it’s not unusual, what about my old school friend Bobby McGee”. Of course, that was my MIL’s friend.
  • I bought a book of photos of cricket grounds in a charity shop last year and decided it would be a good present for my husband. When I was wrapping it I went through it to put a piece of paper in every page where he’d been to the ground, and at one of them, the photo used was a photo of him. Not him in the background - fully him as one of the main subjects, from the one occasion he played a charity game there.
WiddlinDiddlin · 19/09/2021 16:49

When I was a kid, for a summer we (mum, and I, no idea what my sister and dad were doing) stayed on a friends farm and looked after their animals including a native pony stallion of a fairly rare breed, and his two wives and their previous years offspring.

The stallion was rideable and actually as unstalliony as it gets, a total gentleman and so I hacked him out and messed about in the field with him a lot. End of the summer came and he and his wives went home, him back to the island he came from and his wives to a farm to bake their new babies.

This was around 30 years ago.

Last year I picked up a pony book, written for kids and set on the island these ponies come from. The book is fiction, but based on real life, particularly the heritage of the ponies.

Well... as I read the book, certain things seem familiar about the main protagonists pony, a stallion... and there in the back of the book is a photo... yep, its 'my' pony from that summer all those years ago!

I emailed the author and showed her some photos and we had a lovely chat about the life he'd gone on to lead.

One from my childhood - some friends had a barbie camping set, I absolutely coveted this thing, but not the sort of thing our mother would buy us in a million years - there was a tent, fold out tables and chairs, a jeep... loads of stuff.

A year or so later going round charity shops in town (pretty big town) with mother, on the hunt for pony books probably, I came across a barbie camping set - bought it with my pocket money... took it home.

Got it out and sniffed it... and it smelt like my friends home, not bad or anything just 'their smell'... Told mother who said i was ridiculous, in a town that big with that many charity shops what are the chances I've bought my friends old toy... She rang them probably as I was being irritating by this point... yes, it was theirs! :D

As an adult, I decided to take up spinning and I went to a big fibre show, think Crufts .. but for wool. I went with my dad who was fascinated by it all, and we talked about how as a really little kid, 2 years old, I'd been captivated by spinning wheels, drop spindles and so on, when we'd visited a friend of my late mothers. I thought she was a good witch from a fairytale, she was a rather ethereal kind of person... Wasn't it a shame we hadn't seen them in years...

Turn away from the stand we were looking at... and there she is approaching the stand, recognised us both immediately despite not having seen me or my father in 35+ years... To bump into her at an exhibition with thousands of people across a big site... amazing! She helped me buy my first spinning wheel and we are still in touch now.

Not mine but a friends... Friend A goes on holiday round the world gap year type thing, whilst in Sydney, he's waiting for a bus... when someone calls his name... it is the younger brother of his late best mate, they haven't seen each other in a few years since best mate died so haven't been in touch... on a trip with his family!

hookiewookie29 · 19/09/2021 17:21

I work as a childminder and had a family come to see me about childcare. Turned out they lived in the house that I grew up in!

MadisonAvenue · 20/09/2021 07:15

We had a Sky engineer to install the equipment when we moved here and he asked where we’d moved from. Told him and he asked whereabouts in the town so I told him the road name and he said that his aunt and uncle lived on that road, they’d been our lovely next door neighbours for 16 years.

Chemenger · 20/09/2021 07:27

I once had a weird dream that the rear lights of my car had been smashed, told DH when I woke up. When I went to go to work a drunk was passed out in his car behind mine and had hit my car, breaking the back lights.

Years ago a boyfriend and I used to walk into university together and every day we passed a woman sitting with lots of belongings on a bench. She was quite smartly dressed but we assumed she was homeless. We used to smile and nod with her but never spoke. One weekend we went to York. Wandering round York Minster we met the same woman, smiled and nodded. He finished his course and moved away, I moved flat and didn’t see her any more. Months later, for complicated reasons we were in London, saying goodbye for ever. It was a horrible time and we were both miserable. We were walking through Belgravia and we passed her in the street. Again she acknowledged us. Very odd.

WildStallyn · 26/11/2021 09:07

Resurrecting this thread as I just remembered one.

Some time ago DH and Instarted wondering what we'd have been called if we'd been born the opposite sex. We asked our parents and they both confirmed they had decided on names for both sexes for us. I would have been Luke, DH would have been Stephanie.

A long time after, we went away and there was a mix up with the hotel room. There was another couple with our surname booked in for the same dates and the hotel accidentally gave us their room and then had to move us. Their names were Stephanie & Luke [our surname].

We found ourselves looking at every couple in the hotel wondering if it was them, and half expecting to see opposite-sex versions of ourselves (like when you put a photo through a sex change filter).

JudgeJ · 26/11/2021 12:56

I was once parked on double yellows for 'a few minutes(!)' and a young policeman knocked on the window. At the time we had number plates that identified us as working with the forces in Germany and he asked where we were based. To trunacte a long story he had lived in the same place as us all his life, his mother worked alongside my OH, his sister baby-sat for our friends and a couple of weeks earlier he had been collecting bulk rubbish from our house! When I asked if he was going to book me he hadn't noticed the double yellows, the older policeman with him laughed and said he'd been chatting to anyone with these number plates all week but we were the best! WHen OH walked into work a week later he was grabbed by the lad's mother, Oh does he look well, is he eating???

CatBumJuice · 26/11/2021 13:04

We discovered not long before our wedding that DH's aunt was great mates with my dad as children in Australia!

JudgeJ · 26/11/2021 13:16

When we moved house we had a trip booked the following weekend to the US, thhe house had been for sale for ages and the sale was very sudden. When we were in Salt Lake City we visited the headquarters of the Family Research centre of the Mormons as we were very keen on genealogy. In the centre of the room these was an enormous atlas of OS maps open on the table, when I looked it was the village we had just moved to a week earlier and our house was clearly marked. I'm still not convinced that the member of staff there believed me even though we had pictures of the house on our phones.

trevthecat · 26/11/2021 13:34

I have changed some details of this due to it being outing

So my dm is from a town over 100 miles away from where we live. When I was a teen she moved us to a town very near her birth place due to a relationship breakdown and her family still being there. I spent the last 18m of high school in that town, became good friends with one of the girls in the school and then went out with her brother for 3 years. During this time my mum moved back to my original home town. When me and the boy split, by now I'm early 20's, I moved back to my home town. Moved on with my life etc. And moved to a town about 5 miles from where I grew up. Last year the couple across the road from me sold their house, the sister of the boy I was with bought it. Over 100 miles from where she is from, no links to the town. I've had no contact for 13 years and now she lives across the road! She upped and moved her life due to family issues.

So strange!

Honkytonkyhonky · 26/11/2021 14:24

6 and a half years ago I was dating a bloke who was a real tosser

He lived 136 miles from me and I would go stay with him every few weeks

Anyway he let me go travel down before dumping it on me that he’d met a new lady and we where over

I was upset but left and travelled home again

What I didn’t know that further down tossers street a bloke had left his wife (as she was abusive) and was living in a shared house-I walked past it and do vaguely remember seeing a bloke get out of his car

(he wasn’t from the area-he came from down south,met his wife,moved 190 miles to be with her and moved again 30 miles to the shared house to make space from her)

I met shared house bloke a month after walking out on tosser and we’ve been together just over 6 years…

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