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I don’t have enough energy for her

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Needtodothebigshop · 13/09/2021 14:40

My 3 year old Dd

Currently a stay at home mum, she’s just started nursery two mornings per week, she cries her eyes out each time and I think is quite a lot for the staff.
She’s bright and a fun girl and I adore her, but she’s a lot 🙈she just never stops and it’s exhausting. My mum says she can’t remember us being like this when younger and comparing her to friends kids, she’s very full on.
She takes a long time to sleep and doesn’t like to play alone. I just find the full on ness (not a word) too much.
Is this normal??

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Needtodothebigshop · 13/09/2021 15:07

Is it just my child 🙈

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Fedupcyclist · 13/09/2021 15:10

Sounds like my DC.
And I was regularly cycling over 100 miles a week when I had her so not like I’m unfit but I can’t keep up with her.
My mum also says I was never that manic as a child. Maybe she’s just forgotten?
I work 4 days. Couldn’t be a SAHM.
Flowers

Lsquiggles · 13/09/2021 15:14

My 2 year old is the same, I don't know where she gets the energy from!

confuseddotcom1234 · 13/09/2021 15:43

I have a 3 year old and that is full of energy I tend to make sure I always have a plan for first thing in the morning for all of our sanities but it is full on. He does 3 full days of pre school now abs loves it. Hopefully your little one will settle in and it will be an easier time for all of you.

Gemzee · 13/09/2021 16:33

My 3 year old son is currently jumping up & down on the sofa 🤦‍♀️ They have far too much energy at this age - as far as I can tell. It is exhausting at times!

Aria999 · 16/09/2021 12:19

DS (now 5) was a lot like this. (Still is a bit though it's got better).

I couldn't stay in the house all day with him, we had to go out every day or he would go crazy.

Dd is more chilled though still becoming a handful as she approaches 2.

I think it's very variable among kids and is also partly just that age. People do forget what their kids were like.

JesusInTheCabbageVan · 16/09/2021 12:26

I vividly remember being reduced to actual tears by mine at one point, at that age. He was being perfectly lovely and well behaved, but he did not stop talking ONCE for twelve hours straight and he just broke me Grin

Crunchymum · 16/09/2021 12:26

I have one of those (she is 6 now).

I worked 3 days a week and she went to nursery 5 days a week as soon as she got her free hours. She needed as much stimulation as possible.

She is a wonderful, bright, happy, funny child but is still utterly wild although very well behaved at school. Thankfully

LittleOwl153 · 16/09/2021 12:29

I have one too... sorry he's now almost 8!

Moonbabysmum · 16/09/2021 12:35

Nope, it's just what 3yo are like.

unluckyinlife · 16/09/2021 13:01

My son aged 4 was never like it. HOWEVER my 2 year old (nearly 3) daughter is WILD. Always playing, jumping, climbing and on the go. My husband and I don't understand how they are so wildly different. My daughter is getting better now, or I'm getting used to her... I'm not sure which! Grin

DammedifIdo · 16/09/2021 13:46

Sounds normal to me. My 3 year old is the same and we have to go out every day to the park, for a walk etc and then often times again in the afternoon. Haven't needed a pram in ages

Bonheurdupasse · 16/09/2021 15:06

Try putting her in nursery for at least one more day.

It would probably be beneficial to her too.

Franca123 · 16/09/2021 18:05

My two aren't like that. I get tired and hide from them. But I wouldn't describe them how you did. It sounds like a lot!

Susannahmoody · 16/09/2021 18:10

What do you actually do with her? During the day?

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