And if you do, how? Seriously how do you do it?
Eg 1 kitkat left ... (No thought to is it needed for packed lunches etc) ... Eat it.
£10 left in the (joint) bank ... You want something, you buy it!
You're tired, partner is tired ... You have both lay ins at the weekend?
I honestly think there's something wrong with me because I just couldn't do any of this, it's like it's engrained in me to think of everyone else first even to my own detriment sometimes. I don't know what I'm looking for really I just don't know how to be more self focussed.