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To ask how you cope with anxious feelings

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SeaHollyDaiz · 12/09/2021 18:27

Been feeling anxious this weekend, which relates to a work situation I think. The thing is, I know logically that the work thing isn't really going to be a problem, but I can't shake that sick feeling in my stomach and thinking about it obsessively. Urgh.

Have talked it through with dp, and now doing to go for a run so hopefully that will help, but I want to hear some more ideas please!

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grannybee55 · 12/09/2021 18:28

Breathing techniques.
Yoga.
A bath and an early night.
Pleasing myself - sometimes it will do me good to socialise other times I just want to be alone.
No alcohol.

Nillynally · 12/09/2021 18:29

It's awful isn't it! You can't do much except not exacerbate it. So no drinking , eating well, plenty of rest, doing nice things, watching comfortable telly and gentle exercise. Best of luck xx

PieceOfString · 12/09/2021 18:30

Physical activity, keep busy, distract myself so do something that I can get lost in without too much effort that fills my head just enough to keep the thoughts at bay but doesn't require so much from me that I can't focus cos I'm worried. Also find out helpful to put the focus away from myself, so call a friend/relative who I know might need a chat, and take me outside of myself into someone else's world.

kitkatsky · 12/09/2021 18:32

I use this technique. What is the best, worst and most likely outcome? Usually best snd most likely are very similar

Jammysod · 12/09/2021 18:33

Try a meditation app like Headspace or Calm.

Watch something entertaining & easy going on TV (I find Drag Race is brilliant at times like this) or read a book to take your mind off it.
I quite often have the TV on whilst I'm falling asleep, distracts my mind so I don't focus on what is worrying.

MagnoliaBeige · 12/09/2021 18:35

Exercise - endorphins totally calm down any excess adrenaline symptoms. Stay off alcohol, make sure you’re still eating well and verbalise your worries to someone rather than bottling things up.

SeaHollyDaiz · 12/09/2021 19:16

Thanks everyone. The run definately helped! I'm going to make a plan for some better meals for this week and will look at Calm app or similar. @kitkatsky thanks for the technique, you're right the best and most likely outcomes are very similar!

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cissyandbessy · 12/09/2021 19:21

I write it all down in an online diary. Makes me feel better to just rant it all out. Also take myself for a walk and try and think of 5 or 10 things that make it feel a bit better. Like 1. Ive done similar work before - no reason this time it will go wrong 2. If worst happens - sky won't fall down 3. In 25 hours this will all be over and done with and I'll have a nice treat etc etc. Suppose I just coach myself a bit - must look mad at times muttering away to myself while walking the dog !! Kind of works though and sometimes I feel so icky and can't sit still with all of the things racing round in my head.

Jenjenn · 12/09/2021 19:40

I watch makeup videos on youtube. I have minimal interest in makeup but find these rather bizarrely very soothing. Sometimes I use a mindfulness technique of labelling my thoughts past, present, future. Figuring out what the label to give a thought makes me feel like I dealt with it.

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