Dh has gone out with his friends tonight leaving me at home with our 7 month old baby just after I've come out of hospital and told him I still feel quite unwell and dizzy but he's deemed me fit enough to stay with the baby so what can you do? He also deemed me fit enough to drive him the 25 minutes without any petrol In his car so I nearly broke down on the way home as I didn't know he didn't have any petrol so didn't have my purse and when I asked him he said he hadn't factored in spending petrol money tonight?? However he said he'd be back at 12 as the weekends are for him to get up in the morning with DD as I get up all week with her so he can have a quiet morning getting ready for work (I also work and get ready in the morning but it's being a mum apparently), I'm also a bit suspicious as we have a joint account and apparently he's had one drink in 7 hours so unless he's making that drink last or his friends are generous then I don't know what he's doing - our relationship has been crap this year, I had a c section in January, my dad died in March, granddad in July and I've been recovering and then getting sick and being in hospital, we haven't had sex much or really been intimate but anyway since he said he'd be back at 12 would it be unreasonable to tell him to stay somewhere else tonight and lock the door as he has no keys and I don't feel like sleeping with an unlocked door and I need to sleep as DD will be up at 6 and then potentially look at moving out tomorrow.