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Is this a normal way to react to stress..

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TinselTime21 · 12/09/2021 00:26

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I can be quite a 'stress head' small things will wind me up more than they should. Example, someone not giving way, or slow technology. A parcel or something being past its ' due time' which I know is irrational

However If there's a build up of things my brain can't cope.
So one day this week has been one of those weeks. And by weds I got to the point, like I felt like I'd shut down! (it wasn't silly things though it was a week where about 8 things went wrong) I was walking in a daze, like the daze when you're grieving like you're in a bubble . I then feel I have to lay down. I stress and get angry /wound up for about 10 min then next min I'm waking up an hour later. Not even aware I was tired. But it's like i can then process what's gone on and then think rationally.

It's becoming more frequent. Maybe 3 times the last month?

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FourteenthDoctor · 12/09/2021 00:29

Well my son who has autism does this - he calls it a stress nap!!

Branleuse · 12/09/2021 00:29

I dont know whats normal and whats not normal as im autistic but it doesnt sound unreasonable to me to need to decompress or become overwhelmed with several stressful things in a row. Some days are just like that.

Stripey3000 · 12/09/2021 00:32

My reaction to extreme stress is also to sleep. It must be some way of the brain helping us to cope I think
Sorry you've had such an intense month.

frazzledfragglefromfragglerock · 12/09/2021 00:33

I do this. Huge amounts of stress always makes me sleep. I feel like I'm hiding from problems when I do it but I'm such a negative person. You actually made it sound quite a positive thing!

I do also have a pain condition which goes alongside fatigue and stress makes it worse so I guess it makes sense that sleep is my go to coping mechanism lol

frazzledfragglefromfragglerock · 12/09/2021 00:34

Hope things are easier for you next week!

TinselTime21 · 12/09/2021 00:37

Thanks it's good to know I'm not the only one. But not good were all stressys!

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Westerman · 12/09/2021 00:42

I believe that stress, especially a build up of it, always causes a physical reaction. Mine is usually an exacerbation of a skin condition; yours is sleep. It sounds quite normal to me.

Hope things ease up for you very soon.

MorriseysGladioli · 12/09/2021 00:47

It sounds a pretty efficient way of removing you from stress when it's just too much.
You just get turned off and back on again.
A bit like an overloaded piece of tech, in the nicest possible way.

PineappleMojito · 12/09/2021 00:54

I have shutdowns like this and have ADHD.

Plumtree391 · 12/09/2021 01:02

I don't know about 'normal', Tinsel, but I have had the same at times. I just think it's - just me - and life goes on.

PlantDoctor · 12/09/2021 01:10

To be completely honest, I am not sure that is a normal reaction. Might be worth a quick chat with the GP, if only for reassurance?

CrossUniStudent · 12/09/2021 01:15

Sounds like some sort of shut down and the nap essentially resets you. You probably are tired and just don't realise it, as it's more mental than physical tiredness.

Jemi202 · 12/09/2021 01:41

Absolutely- it’s classic boom then bust and normal reaction to stress- not a great coping mechanism though

VentBox · 12/09/2021 06:36

This is something I can recognise in me. I have PTSD and Functional Neurological Disorder.

Be extra kind and gentle to yourself, your body is looking after you, maybe up the self-care?

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