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Impossible sister

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Rinkytinkpanther · 11/09/2021 15:56

Our oldest sister continues to troll our old school Facebook site. She has always said how unhappy she was when she was there. I appreciate a lot of people didn't enjoy their school days but the problem is she is rude to people. I know a lot of people have fond memories and like reminiscing but she will argue with everyone. I cannot actually see what she says as she has blocked me but I can tell from other peoples comments that she has said inflammatory and confrontational remarks.
The problem is I would like the admins to remove her because she has nothing positive to say and I am embarrassed to be her sister. A friend told me she was very rude to her.
I don't want her to know that I've instigated this as all hell will break loose but how can I word it to an admin that there is nothing beneficial in her being a member of this old girls school group and if she hated school so much why is she bothering to post vile and unpleasant comments.
Sorry for the longwinded post.

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Sparklesocks · 11/09/2021 16:00

Well it’s a very embarrassing way to behave. She probably has some issues within herself she needs to address if she’s that angry and thinks that’s an acceptable outlet.
But you can’t control her. If she’s being as awful as you say I’m sure the Admins will take it upon themselves to remove her.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 11/09/2021 16:02

Hmm.

Ever considered that she might actually have had a horrible time and really isn't coping?

You seem more bothered about being embarrassed by her than any possible explanation for her behaviour.

Rinkytinkpanther · 11/09/2021 16:03

Thanks Sparklesocks. There have been a lot of complaints and that's why I am surprised admin are ignoring it.

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Rinkytinkpanther · 11/09/2021 16:04

Curious, she's 65 years old so I think she's had enough time to get over school!

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LagneyandCasey · 11/09/2021 16:04

Surely she's responsible for her own social media. If others are bothered they can block her too and if she breaks the rules admin will delete her posts or remove her.

Sparklesocks · 11/09/2021 16:04

How long ago did you leave the school?

Sparklesocks · 11/09/2021 16:05

Oh just seen 65!! Wow yes, that is a long time to be so angry about it. Maybe she should look into some sort of counselling.

DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 11/09/2021 16:06

You shouldn't word it any way at all.

The admins will block her if they wish.

Treating her like a child won't help anyone.

She has blocked you anyway so just leave it at that.

Rinkytinkpanther · 11/09/2021 16:20

Thanks all.

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CuriousaboutSamphire · 11/09/2021 16:24

@Rinkytinkpanther

Curious, she's 65 years old so I think she's had enough time to get over school!
Which only makes it worse.

It sounds as if she is in quite a bad place and you just think it reflects badly on you!

SeaShoreGalore · 11/09/2021 16:27

Were you really thinking of contacting the admins and saying ‘Please block my sister, she is embarrassing me, and really negative’ Confused

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