Just so I’m clear, I actually love Christmas itself and the build up but there is one thing I hate about it. My SiL (dh’s sis) clearly thinks it’s a competition and it absolutely drains me. Every single year around August she’ll ask me what I’m buying my dc and more often than not I’ll say oh I don’t know because I can’t be bothered to get into it. She will then proceed to rhyme off everything (and I mean everything) she has bought not only my nieces and nephews but also dh’s parents, brother, aunt, cousins etc. She has also asked me how much I spend on my dc which I find plain rude but what I find even ruder is when last year she called round and actually went though my bags. I’d just been to Smyths to get a few gifts for my dd and I’d placed the bags on the table. She was like oh what have you bought. So I said some Christmas gifts. She then decided to look through my bags! If she’d wanted to see what I’d got I’d have shown her. She also insists on knowing what me and dh have bought their parents and believe me, it isn’t so that we don’t buy the same thing, it’s so she can cost up in her head how much we have spent so that she can buy something more expensive. I know, it’s ridiculous. We see her on Christmas Day as she’ll call round to give our dc their presents and she’ll look at literally every present that they have got. She has even asked my teenage dd how much money she got. Please tell me I’m not being unreasonable to think this is pretty bizarre behaviour?