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AIBU?

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24 replies

MiaMarshmallows · 08/09/2021 21:33

An 'OK' response is fine if someone is doing you a favour?
For example, a friend was going to drop my grandchild off to school in the morning but plans changed so I only need her to do it in the afternoon. I told her this over text and she replied saying she would just co the afternoon pick up. I replied with 'OK. ' now it looks rude reading it back.
Aibu?

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Fabbydabbydoozey · 08/09/2021 21:34

I would have probably added a thanks.

Waspsarearseholes · 08/09/2021 21:34

Why didn't you just put a 'thanks' on the end? You were very rude, yes.

Elouera · 08/09/2021 21:35

I too would have at least said 'thanks so much', 'really appreciate it' or 'thats great, thanks'.

grasstreeleaf · 08/09/2021 21:37

Just message her a 'Thanks, again for picking my granddaughter up. Really helped..' etc and your dilemma is solved.Smile

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 08/09/2021 21:41

You should definitely say thanks.

LolaSmiles · 08/09/2021 21:43

It does seem quite rude. I'd have said thank you

thisplaceisweird · 08/09/2021 21:45

I don't think so. If you're friends definitely no need to be always be over polite, it's just a text. Just say thanks when she drops her off.

Howshouldibehave · 08/09/2021 21:45

Thank you would have been the best reply

forgottonworkloaddays · 08/09/2021 21:46

Smiley faces help to

Zarene · 08/09/2021 21:48

Yep, you were rude.

ohthatbloodycat · 08/09/2021 21:56

Well, presumably you thanked her profusely in the first place when it was arranged, so I think it's permissible.

StoneofDestiny · 08/09/2021 22:05

Just send a 'pressed SEND too soon' message that says thank you

Avocadodo · 08/09/2021 22:12

Yes.

But if you send a follow up message thanking them it can all be saved

Avocadodo · 08/09/2021 22:13

@grasstreeleaf

Just message her a 'Thanks, again for picking my granddaughter up. Really helped..' etc and your dilemma is solved.Smile
Yes this sounds good
notHarris · 08/09/2021 22:44

Yes ok was abrupt and rude, it happens though and as pp have said, easily fixable with a follow up text.

WellLarDeDar · 08/09/2021 22:57

It's a bit abrupt. Maybe add a message to the end saying 'by the way thank you so much it's really appreciated! '

DroopyClematis · 08/09/2021 23:00

No, it's not fine to just say 'ok' if someone is doing you a favour.

seaandsandcastles · 08/09/2021 23:02

Yes YABU and should have said thank you.

EspressoDoubleShot · 08/09/2021 23:06

Well hellfire you’ve got mn going on manners and mn is obsessed with manners
Send a follow up text, saying oops sent too soon.Thanks for collecting X
You’re not rude you simply inadvertently sent a brief reply

Holskey · 08/09/2021 23:08

I'm trying to think of a very close relationship where this would be permissable, but even if it were my mum or partner doing me a favour, I would say thanks rather than just "ok".

But as others have said, easily fixed with a follow up.

MiaMarshmallows · 08/09/2021 23:12

I just wanted to acknowledge I had read the text rather than deliberately being rude.

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RazorSharp · 09/09/2021 04:15

Ok, that's great

Ok, cheers for that

Ok, much appreciated

Any of those would've been better!

GoodGrief100 · 09/09/2021 04:54

Yeah, it comes off quite rude. I have a colleague like this and when doing them a favour and letting them know whatever is complete for them, all I get is an 'OK' reply. Grinds my gears - adding a 'thank you' doesn't hurt.

BirdyBirdyTweetTweet · 09/09/2021 06:55

Ok. Thanks very much for helping me out. x

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