I have 5 kids Ds 9 DDs 6 an 4 an a D's 2 now I need help as I have been trying to figure out where I am going wrong my Ds tells lies an when you see him do something he lies to u saying he hasn't done it, the other day we bought something expensive an I told him not to touch it in any circumstances any half an hour later he said it was broke he promised me he hadn't touched it then my 4 yr DD said he had he told me he never upon questioning him he slipped up an told me he did so I banned him off his Xbox for the day then after inspection I got the item working again so then my Ds asked could he go on his Xbox I told him no as I had already banned him from it then my partner said well the thing is not broken so he has been punished why can't he go on it so I explained it's not the matter of it working now or not it's the principal as he had already done 2 things we have told him not too 1 which was touching it after he had been told under no circumstances not to touch it an 2 he had lied to me about it so that's why he was getting punished but then apparently I am the one in the wrong if you all agree then please explain how I am in the wrong please