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To think I'm idiot to be changing jobs now

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fleckingeejit · 07/09/2021 12:03

I'm in Melbourne, going through our eleventy-billionth day of lockdown and homeschooling.

I have quit my part time role with local government where I am top of the band pay wise with no where else to naturally progress to, and accepted a new role that is also part time but 4 full day, same money (but taking home more because I'm working more hours) for a role that could possibly be an amazing opportunity career wise.

Or it could be a huge fecking flop.

Today I have just hit a wall with the homeschooling, and no end in sight to our lockdown.

I've struggled with the government role since I started 2 years ago because it's so suffocating. I'm definitely 1 - 2 bands higher in my experience but it's the role that is banded, not the employee and their experience they bring.

The pros for the government role was that it was local and part time but the new role is remote and part time so I feel I'm swapping like-for-like there.

I was approached regarding the new role, it's not something I would have applied for because it's a bit junior and not something I have relevant experience in.

I pushed the salary at the start of the interview process with the new role because I didn't care if they said no but they accepted and now it will be very good money for a junior role with ample room to grow and earn more.

But. But today it just feels shit. I had told myself we'll be out soon, dc will be back at school etc. But now I don't think they'll be back until next year.

Dh is good but he has a very demanding job, working across multiple time zones US/Europe and does as much as he can but as I was only working 6 hours a day I obviously picked up most stuff.

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fleckingeejit · 07/09/2021 13:15

I knew it was too long Grin

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cocktailclub · 07/09/2021 13:17

How old are your children?

fleckingeejit · 07/09/2021 13:18

dc are 6 and 11. The 11 yo does homeschooling quite well, just needs me to really natter to, but the 6 yo obviously needs quite a bit of time.

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Aprilx · 07/09/2021 13:20

@fleckingeejit

I knew it was too long Grin
It wasn’t particularly long but there isn’t really a question in there. You have swapped jobs, not said much about either of them, so how can anyone comment on whether YABU or not. Confused
Jangle33 · 07/09/2021 13:23

You are just going to have to grit your teeth and get on with it. This is hopefully short term but sounds like you did the right thing to take the new job.

GoWalkabout · 07/09/2021 13:29

Your not an idiot, you are an experienced in demand person also surviving and trying to thrive in lockdown and making the best choices for your family. It will be ok but don't expect too much of yourself or the job at the moment, its a tough time and it will pass. Good luck with it all.

idontlikealdi · 07/09/2021 13:33

You've already changed? Not much else you can but get on with it!

Vaselike · 07/09/2021 13:47

You won’t be the only person in that situation. It’s rubbish, but why shouldn’t you have the opportunity.

I know how awful homeschooling and working is, I really do. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to do something better for you.

fleckingeejit · 07/09/2021 22:59

@idontlikealdi

You've already changed? Not much else you can but get on with it!
I start next week. But you're right, it's done now.

Just having such a wobble and wonder if I'll feel I've been an idiot moving jobs when I'm trying to learn the new one and teach the 6 yo about sound boxes 🙈

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