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To be a little bit excited...

31 replies

hocusspocuss · 05/09/2021 18:56

Tomorrow my 3yo starts nursery four days a week and my older DC goes back to school. I had them three years apart so there hasn't really been a time at all where I haven't had a child at home with me for nearly seven years.

DC2 has moderate SEN and goes to specialist school, I'm technically his full time carer, as he receives DLA and I therefore get carers allowance hence the qualifying for 30 hours instead of 15.

The last three years have been full of stress, moving admin, SEN battles and mental illness.

I can't quite believe I'm about to have four days a week to myself! I've bought myself a swimming costume and joined the local gym on an off peak membership. Swimming used to be my happy place, but I haven't done it in seven years.

I feel a bit anxious about it all tbh, maybe that's my brain trying to sabotage me. I dunno. It feels U to be excited, so I'm trying to keep a lid on it.

OP posts:
Shirleyphallus · 05/09/2021 18:58

Sounds very well deserved, enjoy every moment of your new free time Flowers

Bigoldmachine · 05/09/2021 18:59

That’s a great plan with the swimming OP! Enjoy all that glorious time to yourself (and the quietness!)

hocusspocuss · 05/09/2021 18:59

@Shirleyphallus

Sounds very well deserved, enjoy every moment of your new free time Flowers
Thank you, I just wanted to share it with someone, you know
OP posts:
OrangeTortoise · 05/09/2021 19:00

Enjoy your "me time" OP! I remember the feeling when my youngest started pre-school!

Usernamqwerty · 05/09/2021 19:00

Love this! 😁

Badgergirl123 · 05/09/2021 19:01

Yes, absolutely enjoy every moment. I feel excited for you!

hocusspocuss · 05/09/2021 19:01

@OrangeTortoise

Enjoy your "me time" OP! I remember the feeling when my youngest started pre-school!
Thank you, obviously I will still have to do all the laundry, and the cleaning, and the mountains of SEN admin, but I might also get to drink the odd cup of tea in complete silence!
OP posts:
AlvinSimonTheo · 05/09/2021 19:31

Enjoy!

hocusspocuss · 05/09/2021 20:24

I'm so grateful for the goodwill, I want to shout it from the rooftops really, but this is the only place I feel I can.

OP posts:
Wrenna · 05/09/2021 20:26

Not unreasonable at all! I remember feeling like this but equally excited to pick ds up too! Enjoy!

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 05/09/2021 20:38

YANBU. Enjoy it! Swimming alone is the best Grin

ForeverSinging · 05/09/2021 21:01

Enjoy it, you deserve it, it'll be awesome.

WeKnowFrogsGoShaLaLaLaLa · 05/09/2021 21:03

I love this. Have a wonderful swim OP!

MrsSkylerWhite · 05/09/2021 21:05

Hell no, go for it!

wobblywinelover · 05/09/2021 21:05

Enjoy your time and don't feel guilty for doing so! Sometimes us women are 'conditioned' to do it all and not have time for ourselves, as a woman with so much stress you deserve it all the more! have fun

tortoiselover100 · 05/09/2021 21:18

I'm so happy for you. Enjoy, you deserve it 🥳

AmelieLovesAutumn · 05/09/2021 21:21

Make the most of it!! 🐟 🐠

Have a coffee/healthy shake/tea etc in the gym cafe while you're there!

Brollypackedforscottishholiday · 05/09/2021 21:22

When my youngest started school after seeing many dc start I went back to bed til 11!!
Grin
Then enjoyed my days off work and got some me time!!
Enjoy op...
You well deserve it.

felulageller · 05/09/2021 21:34

Well deserved

BloomingTrees · 05/09/2021 21:37

Enjoy! Children are better off with a happy and relaxed mum, so win- win.

Comedycook · 05/09/2021 21:39

Enjoy...have a lovely day! Well deserved.

Tomorrow DH is in the office, both kids FINALLY back at school....I'm excited! What with lockdowns, wfh, school closures, isolations, I'm very much looking forward to it. I can't wait to clean my house in peace Blush. Then hopefully find some time to do some stuff for me!

SorryPardonWhat · 05/09/2021 21:40

I feel your joy! Wonderful and well deserved. By looking after yourself you are looking after your children.

ParkheadParadise · 05/09/2021 21:41

Sounds like you very much deserve some me time.
Enjoy it.

TaVeryMuchLove · 05/09/2021 21:43

Fab! Enjoy 😊

TheVolturi · 05/09/2021 21:44

Enjoy it op!

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