My DM has cut me off because I had the vaccine

[TheMadCat]

Her parting words to me where “I can’t watch you die because of that venom”

She’s a covid denier, believes a lot of the conspiracy theories about it and tells me it’s all a lie by the government to control us. She says since covid I’ve changed and been brainwashed by what people have told me – I have friends who’re nurses, friends in the ambulance service, as well as some of the parents at school losing relatives, I believe it’s real from the stories I’ve been told. One of the nurses I’ve known for 5 years and she’s broken by it all – she’s usually an extremely strong and positive person.

I don’t care about that, the biggest issue for me is her trying to get to my DD (aged 7).

I’ve told school not to let anyone but me pick DD up (I already email them if ExH is picking her as there’s a CAO for his contact and that’s the agreed protocol for CAOs at school). So couldn’t even get through the gates (DDs been back 2 days and she’s already tried again!). But she keeps trying, she’s emailed her, thankfully DD knows to show me all emails on her tablet before opening them so didn't see anything but DMs email address.

She’s tried to persuade my dad who she’s been divorced from for 15 years to let her see DD when he takes her and my DN to an after school club – DM is not DNs GP, they’re my half siblings child on my dads side.

I expect she’ll approach my abusive ExH next for contact, he only sees DD EOW for 1 night so I doubt his parents would willingly give up their only time with their GC, but I’m done with it all.

I don’t know what else to do. I would actually love to speak to my mum, whatever her views and let her see DD but she just wants DD without me because I’m apparently going to die and she can’t watch that –no idea what she’d do if I have cancer—I’'ve tried texting but I think I'm blocked as the texts won't go through.

AIBU to consider an NMO?

What does she think we are all going to die of? And when? Does she think all the 48 million of us who have had at least one dose are going to die?

Some people believe the earth is flat. Despite all scientific and photographic evidence it's not, they still believe. Asking her questions like these are not going to alter her thought process. She'll have seen all the reporting of people in hospitals, heard all the people talking about nearly dying, listened to people talking about losing relatives, but she still doesn't believe.

But he ops mother does believe her daughters life is at risk. For the ops mother that is not a ridiculous reason. She's probably cutting her off to make the op come to her senses.

Ultimately the only person who matters here is the ops daughter. The op and her mother love each other and will get back together at some point, but it's a problem how to keep her daughter secure in the immediate future.