I recently saw someone I knew from a youth club 20 years ago at a local community event. I recognised him but couldn't place him until he came over to me and I asked his name. We remembered each other but I said to him "I remember you just not coming back one week" - he then went into a long story about how one of the youth club leaders had sexually assaulted him and two other boys. I was shocked, but remembered the guy vaguely. He reminded me of his name and a few memories slotted into place but there were only rumours at the time.
This guy told me that he reported it at the time but the two other boys didnt want to be give statements and the guy got off. He then told me he was contacted a few years later by Child Protection who were trying to get this guy put on the sex offenders register. Apparently they succeeded.
I was talking to my sister today about it as she attended the same youth club and we googled this guy. It turns out he is now the Town Clerk of a town a few over from us. He has a facebook profile where he is sharing things about local girl guide group and pictures from infant school fetes, etc.
I know this sounds stupid - but can I check if someone is on a sex offenders register? I believed the guy I bumped into when he told me but I can't believe someone on a SOR would get a position in a town council? From his FB profile and press releases he is very active in the community and would be interacting with children often.
Initially I thought I would contact the council but WHAT IF the guy I bumped into wasn't being completely truthful and I just cause trouble?