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Can I report this car? And if so WIBU to do so or should I just leave it be?

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doesthismakemeanarse · 31/08/2021 10:57

Residential street, outskirts of London.
No parking restrictions but also not all houses have driveways (or driveways big enough for all cars in household) so there is still an element of demand for on street parking, which is limited because due to width of road, need to allow other vehicles to pass through etc people can only park on one side, not both.

about 5 doors down lives an elderly lady (at a guess in her 80s). Her DH died a few years ago now - he was a bit of a tinkerer with 'vintage' cars, and usually had 2-3 in various states of disrepair at any one time. SInce he died, there's been 2 shells of cars - think no wheels, missing doors etc on their drive under tarps, and another one that looks physically intact on the road.

Obviously it's completely up to her what she does with the cars on her drive, but the one on the road is a really big old car, 50+ years old, you could fit 2 small modern cars like a Fiat 500 or similar in it's space. According to the Gov.uk website it's MOT ran out in 2017, and I'm pretty sure it hasn't moved since then - there are weeds growing round it. It does seem to be taxed but I guess that's just a formality given it's age. It doesn't seem to be a runner, and whilst I could understand them maybe wanting to keep it for sentimental reasons or a family member, but I'm not sure it's fair to keep it on the street occupying effectively 2 parking spaces indefinitely.

I'm not unsympathetic, and I certainly wouldn't complain if all the cars were on her driveway, but taking up a road space (or two) essentially permanently just seems a little unfair - or is that me?

OP posts:
DynamoKev · 31/08/2021 14:25

It is also a bit of an eyesore
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

TravellingJack · 31/08/2021 14:26

I reported a car on my road for similar reasons several months after I moved here. It was in very poor condition (badly scratched and dented), full of rubbish, sitting on four flats and clearly hadn't been moved in a long time (at least since I'd first viewed my property). It was also badly parked, taking up two spaces in an area where parking is at a premium as not many properties have driveways. I checked the MOT and tax status online and then reported it as 'out of tax/MOT and appears to be abandoned' to the council. Got acknowledgement emails stating they would follow it up and left it at that. It took a few months but obviously something was done as suddenly the car was in a neighbour's drive several doors down! It's still on four flats, still hasn't had anything done to it (I walk past it every day) but at least two more cars can get parked now. I was even more annoyed in hindsight to see that the owner had a driveway they could have put it on months (or years!) before, and hadn't bothered, just left it to inconvenience people who don't have the luxury of off-street parking Hmm

TheWayTheLightFalls · 31/08/2021 14:29

i would probably just leave it and not say anything. I wouldn't want to cause her any distress and although its an inconvenience it's not causing a real problem

This. I live somewhere with limited parking and have to contend with people’s vintage projects, skips etc etc. Targeting an elderly widow to free up a parking space feels rather cruel.

Xiaoxiong · 31/08/2021 14:43

It sounds like you know about cars, so I would go over and knock - over-egg how much nodding contact you had with the husband ("oh yes we always would say hello when he was working on them") and then ask, since you are a car person, if she would like any help with the remaining cars. She may be overwhelmed and just have no idea what to do with them and appreciate your offer of help. Alternately, she may slam the door in your face but at least you've tried!

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