Long story but have a strained relationship with my mum. I was abused by a member of her family when I was a young teen and it destroyed our relationship for various reasons. When I left home I had limited contact with her and have since got married and had 2 DC with not much contact with her. She has never made an effort. Recently she started making an effort and asking about children etc. Decided to make a huge effort too and DC have loved getting to know her this last year. Now she’s gone all quiet again and not responding to contact. Have I been a complete idiot in letting her into my life again?! Should I just go NC? Feel really stupid!