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Happiestyearofmylife · 30/08/2021 00:06

Dd2 has very irregular periods and hasn’t had one since March. She’s still getting stomach pains mostly in her side.

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thingymaboob · 30/08/2021 00:07

How old is she? Is she sexually active?

Happiestyearofmylife · 30/08/2021 00:11

20 and no she’s a virgin

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househuntinginthesouth · 30/08/2021 00:13

Could she have Polycystic ovary syndrome?

thingymaboob · 30/08/2021 00:17

Well it could be anything - It could be a primary gynaecological problem like pcos or the amenorrhea could be a symptom of another underlying medical condition. There's no way we should be speculating. She needs to see a GP ASAP. Unless the pain is worsening then A & E is reasonable. I'm a paramedic.

Happiestyearofmylife · 30/08/2021 00:19

She did speak to a gp and was offed the pill.

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Happiestyearofmylife · 30/08/2021 00:20

Thanks everyone

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thingymaboob · 30/08/2021 00:26

There's no way a GP would just give the pill to someone without investigating pain and irregular / missing periods. If that's what they did then she needs to go back and see a different GP.

Happiestyearofmylife · 30/08/2021 00:28

That is what she did said that was the only way she would get regular periods and that it wasn’t abnormal to have irregular ones

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thingymaboob · 30/08/2021 00:39

But the pain? Pain needs to be investigated.

MrsTulipTattsyrup · 30/08/2021 00:39

Is this the same DD about whose mental health issues you’ve been posting a lot today? Assuming she’s on medication for her mental health, it’s worth checking if this could be a side effect of any meds. Check the packet inserts for a list of side effects.

But really only a doctor can help properly.

Happiestyearofmylife · 30/08/2021 10:33

She’s contacted them again re the pain. They have given her an appointment in three weeks But I was just curious if anyone else had any views.

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Adarajames · 30/08/2021 15:04

My periods were excessively painful and irregular from when I started at around 13/14, until I finally had a coil fitted, aged around 40; even when on the pill (of a variety of types) I still had major problems. was apparently not severe enough for PCOS but I still had laser ablation which helped a little for a short period of time before back to weeks of hell every month. However, it was all investigated, even if not successfully dealt with (dearth of funds / research in female medicine as per Hmm ) and so seeing the Dr and keep pushing til you have everything else ruled out is the important point in my waffling

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