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To think this is a brush off?

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Geordieinscotlanddd · 28/08/2021 13:57

Out for drinks with friends and friends of friends... Detected some flirty vibes from one when we first met but less so now so may well be in my head! We are both single

I suggested staying for one more small one (with the group so not just him) and he kindly said no, we should probably call it a night as it would then be a big night etc and we all had early starts the next morning. Was kind though and mentioned how “my enthusiasm was noted for next time” etc (meant jokily) - he enjoys a drink

I feel really awkward! Is this a brush off or am I just reading too much into it. I’m anxious post Covid re social interactions and eager to be liked lol (who isn’t)

OP posts:
Bluntness100 · 28/08/2021 15:39

Think the op started two threads.

M0rT · 28/08/2021 15:40

I'm not sure if it's a brush off or not. But does him speaking for the group not turn your off?
If I said to multiple people why don't we stay for one more and one of them took it on themselves to answer for everyone in the negative I'd be irritated, and if I was one those answered for probably stay out of stubbornness Grin

aaaaah · 28/08/2021 15:41

@Bluntness100

Think the op started two threads.
Yes sorry my bad
Bloodypunkrockers · 28/08/2021 15:44

Echoing what others have said

Don't feel embarrassed. You asked everyone, so not obvious you meant him

And if I really fancied someone I would want to stay out longer so yes, don't think he is interested

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